A week or two, my friend Jenn lost her husband. <\/p>\n
Today, two of my friends (Laura and Tim) found out from the ultrasound that their baby didn’t develop a skull or brain tissue.<\/p>\n
Cue Mother Teresa quote: “I know God won’t give me anything I can’t handle. I just wish He didn’t trust me so much.”<\/p>\n
Because of my own science project pregnancy experience, I feel especially hard for Laura and Tim because this is one of those situations where they did everything they were supposed to and something awful happened. I feel awful that they’re going through this at all but I feel especially awful that they’re going to get the following comments from well-meaning (and some not quite well-meaning) people:<\/p>\n
[+] At least you have a healthy two year-old daughter.<\/strong> Yeah… be as that may, Magdalena does not make up for the baby that they’re losing now.<\/p>\n [+]Well, if Laura had only done [insert thing], she wouldn’t have had this problem.<\/strong> Laura is one of the most granola hippie people I know. She wouldn’t do anything while pregnant to make this happen. This also discounts the fact that crappy things like this happen for reasons that are only clear to God.<\/p>\n [+]This will make Tim a better pastor.<\/strong> While this is partially true, it’s still not going to remove the sting from this.<\/p>\n Keep them in your prayers please.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" A week or two, my friend Jenn lost her husband. Today, two of my friends (Laura and Tim) found out from the ultrasound that their baby didn’t develop a skull or brain tissue. Cue Mother Teresa quote: “I know God … Continue reading