{"id":3753,"date":"2012-04-03T08:00:49","date_gmt":"2012-04-03T15:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/grace-filled.net\/?p=3753"},"modified":"2012-04-02T22:45:59","modified_gmt":"2012-04-03T05:45:59","slug":"getting-by-with-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/grace-filled.net\/?p=3753","title":{"rendered":"Getting By With Help"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One of the jobs that is tough with having a special needs child is dealing with the Social Security Administration regarding your child&#8217;s SSI.  My local one is incompetent at best and in March, they messed up Daniel&#8217;s SSI amount because the person reviewing the file decided to skip a page of what makes him eligible.  When I called them and told them to FIX IT, they told me to return the check and they&#8217;d send out a corrected one.  I complied and got a letter from them yesterday saying that Daniel&#8217;s SSI was suspended until I called my local office because his March check had been returned to the US Treasury&#8230; by the local office.  Ready to punch a wall yet?  Making things &#8220;better&#8221;, I got the letter 15 minutes after the office closed which means that I get to deal with it today.  Oh flipping joy.<\/p>\n<p>Knowing the incredible temptation to use four-lettered words and the creative curses that could spring out of my mouth, I tweeted and Facebook-messaged a few friends to pray for my mouth tomorrow that in my anger I wouldn&#8217;t sin.  I&#8217;m not saying that I won&#8217;t have had angry thoughts about the SSA but I&#8217;ll be less likely to use language that will rub off on Daniel in bad ways.<\/p>\n<p>It was a lesson in the fact that I&#8217;m not alone on my &#8220;journey home&#8221; and that we aren&#8217;t meant to try and get through the world ourselves.  We have the Holy Spirit and we also have each other.  Without the help of <a href=\"http:\/\/exegete77.wordpress.com\" title=\"Rich\">Rich<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/imperfectkate.wordpress.com\" title=\"Kate\">Kate<\/a>, I&#8217;d probably be in VERY deep trouble right now in terms of the state of my soul&#8230; or at least more trouble than I normally am as a broken person.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the jobs that is tough with having a special needs child is dealing with the Social Security Administration regarding your child&#8217;s SSI. My local one is incompetent at best and in March, they messed up Daniel&#8217;s SSI amount &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/grace-filled.net\/?p=3753\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1,37,2,38,43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3753","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-daily-life","category-daniel","category-faith","category-gold-country-life","category-occupying-lent"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p38xoO-Yx","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/grace-filled.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3753","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/grace-filled.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/grace-filled.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grace-filled.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grace-filled.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3753"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/grace-filled.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3753\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3754,"href":"https:\/\/grace-filled.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3753\/revisions\/3754"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/grace-filled.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3753"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grace-filled.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3753"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grace-filled.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3753"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}