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Jen isn't quite sure when she lost her mind, but it is probably documented here on Meditatio. She blogs because the world needs her snark at all hours of the night... and she probably can't sleep anyway.

The Simple Woman’s Daybook: May 21, 2012

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FOR TODAY May 21, 2012

Outside my window… dark. I think it was hot today — I didn’t go outside until 5:45 pm. Just saw on the news that it was in the 80’s today. This is an improvement over the 90’s this weekend. I hate heat.

I am thinking… that this migraine/neck pain has worn out its welcome.

I am thankful… for my family coming up to celebrate the communal birthday this weekend. (I’m a twin and my brother lives 45 minutes away.) We went to the town festival and the Relay for Life event at the high school. Dinner was a Mediterranean orzo dish and salad. Dessert was brownies that my mom made.

In the kitchen… I made the orzo on Saturday as well as some boxty for church.

I am wearing… navy blue maternity shirt and blue plaid boxers.

I am creating… this entry and a topic list/posting schedule for Brett’s Blogathon.

I am going… to hopefully feel better and less achy tomorrow. Fibro, you suck!

I am reading… not enough these days.

I am hoping… the pain in my neck and shoulders goes down with some ice.

I am looking forward to… a weekend without things to do. There’s also my

Around the house… it’s clean after having company this weekend.

I am pondering… various ways to publicize Brett’s Blogathon.

A favorite quote for today… Another song this week — “Jesus, Friend of Sinners” by Casting Crowns. I heard it on KLOVE this evening and immediately decided to get it off of iTunes.

One of my favorite things… my beautiful house panther who decided to settle on my chest while I am working on this. 🙂 Mommy loves her Edda cat.

A few plans for the rest of the week: whatever errands come up and a massage on Friday.

A peek into my day… The view of the eclipse from my porch.

The view of the eclipse from my porch.

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Long Long Ago…

in a galaxy far far away… (OK, it was Los Gatos. But anyway…)

My brother (left) and I (right) in our grandparents' laps.

I’m the sleeping one on the right. We’re 3 weeks old — I know because it was taken at home and I was in the hospital for the first three weeks. (Preemie + twin = NICU for a week and then local hospital to put some weight on. My brother went home after only 3 days.)

I celebrated today by sleeping in until 10:30 (in the living room with Daniel climbing on me — I didn’t even register it) and then going to the local town festival with my parents (who came up from San Jose). We also stopped by the local Relay for Life to see church members who were there. The evil twin (Sean) and my sister-in-law came over at 5:30 (she had schoolwork to do) and we had dinner (a Mediterranean orzo dish) and brownies (not special ones — this is northern California but my mom doing the baking) for dessert. It was good to see Jeanette (the sister-in-law) because we’ve missed her this quarter when we’ve had gatherings at our place. I’m hoping she has a lighter load this summer (if she goes) and this fall.

Meanwhile, the bear child is asleep and I’m hoping Jon goes that direction. Allergies in the Sacramento area have been insufferably awful and Daniel had the combination of no nap/stimulation/sun/allergies today. He was a cute boy but definitely needed his 8:00 bedtime.

Right now, I’m making boxty for church tomorrow. We have our end-of-the-year Sunday school potluck and one of our Confirmation kids suggested an international theme. Being the good Irish Lutheran I am, I decided on boxty because colcannon makes me sick. (There’s some bad juju between the two of us from when I was pregnant with Daniel.)

A Possible Solution to the HHS Mandate Sitch

On my Quick Takes this week, I had the following to say:

I heard about Franciscan University’s insurance plan for next year. (The gist of it: the terms of the mandate require them to cover contraception and other parts of the mandate would make it too expensive.) I think the best way to put this is “cutting off one’s nose to spite one’s face”. There are a number of ways that Franciscan could work around the mandate that would not require them to cover contraception. Having a community covenant not to contracept comes to mind as an example. Just look at schools like Liberty University, Cedarville University, and other conservative Christian colleges which have certain standards to which students must abide in order to maintain enrollment. Having something in writing that the student will not contracept in order to stay enrolled wouldn’t be that hard. I also wonder why someone would be attending a school like Franciscan if one wasn’t willing to live according to the teachings of the Magisterium so I’m not even sure that you’d find many students that would contracept there.

There are two suggestions I’d make that could solve this.

Community Covenant
If you were to go onto the website of a school like Cedarville University in Ohio and could actually *find* their student handbook (it was pretty hard to find), you’d see a few interesting things.

01.) Required daily chapel for *everyone*. No exceptions.
02.) Dress code rules for classes and activities. (It has relaxed considerably in the last 11 years. Girls used to have to wear skirts or dresses to class.)
03.) Required Biblical Studies minor along with whatever major you have.
(All this is based on the testimony of the Cedarville students I roomed with at Urbana and the school website at that time.)

If you looked at a number of conservative Christian colleges around the country, you’d find similar things though the chapel requirements are less and there usually isn’t a dress code. Why am I bringing this up? Cedarville has a community covenant that the students have to agree to in order to attend and it includes things like church attendance on Sunday morning/evening and Wednesday evening, the dress code, certain conduct like not drinking, and other things that set the school apart from other schools in the area and in Ohio.

If Cedarville can do this, is there any reason Franciscan couldn’t do something similar and write provisions for the sanctity of life into theirs, with one of them being that students don’t contracept? It would make the HHS mandate moot because no student would be contracepting if they wanted to remain in good standing with the school. It wouldn’t matter if they were Catholic or not — it would be part of the community covenant that students agree to abide by in order to stay enrolled.

Churchwide Insurance Plan
The Catholic Church is the largest single Christian group in the U.S. A number of politicians across the board claim to be Catholic and the Church does have some sway on policy. In dealing with the HHS Mandate and the problems of conscience that arise, one issue is that the Church doesn’t qualify for an exemption because the scope of the mandate isn’t broad enough. The rest of us clergy and ministries can get exemptions because we’re covered under denominational insurance plans which are specific to our denomination.

One solution (which has a better chance of working than making the Obama administration change) is to create a churchwide insurance plan. There is already a Catholic fraternal organization which deals in life insurance/long-term care insurance/retirement — the Knights of Columbus — so why not use the knowledge of the KoC and create a churchwide healthcare plan that people could buy into?

The benefits:
01.) You’d have so many members that it would lower rates. The reason corporations like UPS can offer fantastic benefits is that they’ve got 80,000 employees. Ditto with a denomination like the ELCA which had *fabulous* benefits for clergy and their families that I miss terribly. If the Catholic Church had its own insurance plan (which could be administered by someone like Aetna or Blue Cross/Blue Shield), it would be the largest in the country and could offer better rates than *anyone* else.
02.) You’d be able to specify no contraception, no abortiofacients, etc. As the insurer of your religious organizations, you’d be able to specify what you could not cover for religious reasons. This would qualify for an exemption for religious purposes.
03.) As the largest insurer in the country, you’d have a pretty decent voice in healthcare policy. If you’re insuring millions of people and providing affordable/comprehensive care, insurance companies are going to be listening because, dude, they’ll want to do business with you. The insurance industry is not non-profit by any stretch of the imagination. (It’s partially why costs are so exorbitant but that’s another rant for another time.)

So is the Church going to start its own insurance program? Probably not. That’s for the USCCB to decide and this little Lutheran doesn’t have their ear. The community covenant at Franciscan is workable though.

Why yes, I know I’m not Catholic. However, I’ve rarely seen Catholic bloggers hold their tongues when it comes to things happening with Protestants; and instead of just criticizing Franciscan for their policy, I’m actually making a valid suggestion as to how to fix it.

7 Quick Takes: Voicing My Thoughts

7 Quick Takes

For a change this week, I thought I’d do my Quick Takes as an audio file. Click on the “Continue reading ->” to see the text of them.

Oh yes… comments regarding Quick Take #2 can be left here. Anything about it (other than unfettered praise) left on this entry will be either edited or deleted.

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Hymns that Speak to Me Right Now (VI)

I posted a lot of these (like 5 of them) during Lent and I think this is a series that I’d like to continue.

Our selection this time is “Open Now Thy Gates of Beauty” that is used as a processional hymn/gathering hymn/opening hymn in a number of Protestant denominations, mainstream and conservative alike. The tune is Unser Herrscher by Joachim Neander (composed in 1680 — my taste in hymns settings is “the older the better”) and the lyrics are:

Open now thy gates of beauty,
Zion, let me enter there,
Where my soul in joyful duty
Waits for Him Who answers prayer.
Oh, how blessèd is this place,
Filled with solace, light and grace!

Lord, my God, I come before Thee,
Come Thou also unto me;
Where we find Thee and adore Thee,
There a heav??n on earth must be.
To my heart, oh, enter Thou,
Let it be Thy temple now!

Here Thy praise is gladly chanted,
Here Thy seed is duly sown;
Let my soul, where it is planted,
Bring forth precious sheaves alone,
So that all I hear may be
Fruitful unto life in me.

Thou my faith increase and quicken,
Let me keep Thy gift divine,
Howsoe??er temptations thicken;
May Thy Word still o??er me shine
As my guiding star through life,
As my comfort in my strife.

Speak, O God, and I will hear Thee,
Let Thy will be done indeed;
May I undisturbed draw near Thee
While Thou dost Thy people feed.
Here of life the fountain flows,
Here is balm for all our woes.
(HT: Net Hymnal)

I love it. because it totally describes the way we should be as we head into Mass/worship/prayer: open to hearing God’s voice with the realization that God is present.

I’m amazed that I found this on YouTube but there *is* a video. Woo. It’s from the installation of a bishop in the ELCA so they have the phatty organ and handbells with a sweet choir. You’ll see women processing in wearing their stoles — the ELCA ordains women as pastors. The last man in the procession who is tall/thin/bearded is Bishop Mark Hanson, the presiding bishop of the ELCA. I actually *like* this particular YouTube video because it shows us Lutherans doing church music well. The congregation is singing in addition to the choir and handbells, which is how I think hymns should be done.

OK… WordPress apparently hates me tonight so click here to see it.

The Simple Woman’s Daybook: May 14, 2012

Simple Woman's Daybook

FOR TODAY May 14, 2012

Outside my window… sunny and hot though there’s a breeze.

I am thinking… that my neck pain has worn out its welcome.

I am thankful… for lots of rest today.

In the kitchen… banana bread at some point this week to take pictures for the blogathon I’m planning on Brett’s behalf.

I am wearing… black t-shirt and green plaid boxers.

I am creating… this entry and a list of topics for Brett’s blogathon.

I am going… to curl up in the recliner and ice my neck once I’m done with this.

I am wondering… why Daniel is so grumpy right now.

I am reading… still on Style, Sex, and Substance ed. by Hallie Lord. The problem is that I kept forgetting to charge my NOOK which is the format in which I have the book.I did read a quickie murder mystery this weekend though — Southern Ghost by Carolyn Hart which was pretty good.

I am hoping… my neck stops misbehaving soon. It’s been almost 2 weeks of pain.

I am looking forward to… my birthday on Saturday.

Around the house… Jon did all the dishes as a Mother’s Day present to me.

A favorite quote for today… how about a song? I’m fond of the alternate title of this one — “Like A Lion”!

One of my favorite things… Daniel snuggling with me yesterday and playing clapping games.

A few plans for the rest of the week: WIC either tomorrow or Wednesday, Strawberry Festival and my birthday on Saturday.

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7 Quick Takes — Season Finales, It’s Too Darn Hot, and Promise Walk Highlights

7 Quick Takes

— 1 —

Oh. Em. Gee. CSI season finale!!! I so do NOT approve of it being a cliffhanger! I will be grumping about this until September. What oh what will I do on Wednesday nights?!?!?!?!?!? (Answer: He-Man reruns and Netflix probably.) It was good to find out what had happened between Finn and Russell and to find out that it was something innocuous and not that they had been involved romantically in an adulterous fashion.

— 2 —

Hart of Dixie was good this week. This show is my guilty pleasure. (I usually watch forensic shows or stuff like The Big Bang Theory.) I loved the scene where Lemon gets her head stuck in the bed frame. It was an interesting message this week in that we see that Zoe’s presence in Bluebell does make a difference. I think it’s applicable to us in that what we do has repercussions and we have the blessing/curse of impacting other peoples’ lives.

— 3 —

I totally loved Abby’s outfit on NCIS this week. I really wish I’d known what had been planned for the bachelor party by Abby because that so did NOT end up happening! I also wonder if there’s anyone else who finds Dr. Samantha Ryan (Jamie Lee Curtis) to have undertones of naughtiness. She evokes a feeling kind of like a few of the characters in an Austin Powers movie.

— 4 —

The wedding on The Big Bang Theory was awesome. I love that all the members of the group of friends were ordained so they all performed the marriage ceremony. I wonder if anything will happen with Penny and Leonard next season…

— 5 —

It has been in the 90’s for the past few days here in Gold Country. Have I mentioned that I hate heat? It’s awful regardless of whether or not it’s a dry heat. Additionally, it’s allergy season so all of us in the house are miserable and I’ve had to find something to work for Daniel. The only good thing is that the heat has tired him out and he’s usually gone down for a decent nap. He only got a 20 minute nap today because he fell asleep while we were running errands and I couldn’t get him back down. Enter in wailing and gnashing teeth on Daniel’s part. We just got him back down. I’m hoping that he was just overtired and that he doesn’t have an ear infection — it would be really hard to diagnose and I’m not sure when I could get him into the doctor tomorrow as we have his IEP in the afternoon.

— 6 —

I’d still love to hear from any parents of special needs kids on their experiences getting services for their kids as well as adventures in raising them. I’m the Guardian Angel for an adorable little boy through Reece’s Rainbow and I’m doing a series on this on my blog dedicated to getting Brett adopted. Please let me know if you’re interested.

— 7 —

The Promise Walk was awesome. I erroneously thought it was Saturday and showed up at Lake Vasona to find nobody there. Go me. I went back on Sunday (without Jon who had to head back up to Gold Country to lead worship) and had a great time. My parents participated too and Mom and I did the three mile walk with Daniel. (My dad bailed out at some unknown distance so we don’t know how far he walked — only that he cheated. :p) It wasn’t as many people as last year but it was still fun. Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital was one of the sponsors and when I told them that I had been in their NICU about 32 years ago (when it was just Stanford Children’s Hospital), they took pictures. I’m guessing they don’t see many of their alumni that often? 🙂 I personally raised about $600 (will have the exact number this weekend) so I’m pretty jazzed.

For more Quick Takes, visit Hallie at BettyBeguiles.Com who is hosting this week while Jen takes some time off. Please keep Jen in your prayers — she witnessed a horrific motorcycle accident and is trying to process all the emotions and images in her brain.