The Simple Woman’s Daybook: May 21, 2012

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FOR TODAY May 21, 2012

Outside my window… dark. I think it was hot today — I didn’t go outside until 5:45 pm. Just saw on the news that it was in the 80’s today. This is an improvement over the 90’s this weekend. I hate heat.

I am thinking… that this migraine/neck pain has worn out its welcome.

I am thankful… for my family coming up to celebrate the communal birthday this weekend. (I’m a twin and my brother lives 45 minutes away.) We went to the town festival and the Relay for Life event at the high school. Dinner was a Mediterranean orzo dish and salad. Dessert was brownies that my mom made.

In the kitchen… I made the orzo on Saturday as well as some boxty for church.

I am wearing… navy blue maternity shirt and blue plaid boxers.

I am creating… this entry and a topic list/posting schedule for Brett’s Blogathon.

I am going… to hopefully feel better and less achy tomorrow. Fibro, you suck!

I am reading… not enough these days.

I am hoping… the pain in my neck and shoulders goes down with some ice.

I am looking forward to… a weekend without things to do. There’s also my

Around the house… it’s clean after having company this weekend.

I am pondering… various ways to publicize Brett’s Blogathon.

A favorite quote for today… Another song this week — “Jesus, Friend of Sinners” by Casting Crowns. I heard it on KLOVE this evening and immediately decided to get it off of iTunes.

One of my favorite things… my beautiful house panther who decided to settle on my chest while I am working on this. 🙂 Mommy loves her Edda cat.

A few plans for the rest of the week: whatever errands come up and a massage on Friday.

A peek into my day… The view of the eclipse from my porch.

The view of the eclipse from my porch.

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A Possible Solution to the HHS Mandate Sitch

On my Quick Takes this week, I had the following to say:

I heard about Franciscan University’s insurance plan for next year. (The gist of it: the terms of the mandate require them to cover contraception and other parts of the mandate would make it too expensive.) I think the best way to put this is “cutting off one’s nose to spite one’s face”. There are a number of ways that Franciscan could work around the mandate that would not require them to cover contraception. Having a community covenant not to contracept comes to mind as an example. Just look at schools like Liberty University, Cedarville University, and other conservative Christian colleges which have certain standards to which students must abide in order to maintain enrollment. Having something in writing that the student will not contracept in order to stay enrolled wouldn’t be that hard. I also wonder why someone would be attending a school like Franciscan if one wasn’t willing to live according to the teachings of the Magisterium so I’m not even sure that you’d find many students that would contracept there.

There are two suggestions I’d make that could solve this.

Community Covenant
If you were to go onto the website of a school like Cedarville University in Ohio and could actually *find* their student handbook (it was pretty hard to find), you’d see a few interesting things.

01.) Required daily chapel for *everyone*. No exceptions.
02.) Dress code rules for classes and activities. (It has relaxed considerably in the last 11 years. Girls used to have to wear skirts or dresses to class.)
03.) Required Biblical Studies minor along with whatever major you have.
(All this is based on the testimony of the Cedarville students I roomed with at Urbana and the school website at that time.)

If you looked at a number of conservative Christian colleges around the country, you’d find similar things though the chapel requirements are less and there usually isn’t a dress code. Why am I bringing this up? Cedarville has a community covenant that the students have to agree to in order to attend and it includes things like church attendance on Sunday morning/evening and Wednesday evening, the dress code, certain conduct like not drinking, and other things that set the school apart from other schools in the area and in Ohio.

If Cedarville can do this, is there any reason Franciscan couldn’t do something similar and write provisions for the sanctity of life into theirs, with one of them being that students don’t contracept? It would make the HHS mandate moot because no student would be contracepting if they wanted to remain in good standing with the school. It wouldn’t matter if they were Catholic or not — it would be part of the community covenant that students agree to abide by in order to stay enrolled.

Churchwide Insurance Plan
The Catholic Church is the largest single Christian group in the U.S. A number of politicians across the board claim to be Catholic and the Church does have some sway on policy. In dealing with the HHS Mandate and the problems of conscience that arise, one issue is that the Church doesn’t qualify for an exemption because the scope of the mandate isn’t broad enough. The rest of us clergy and ministries can get exemptions because we’re covered under denominational insurance plans which are specific to our denomination.

One solution (which has a better chance of working than making the Obama administration change) is to create a churchwide insurance plan. There is already a Catholic fraternal organization which deals in life insurance/long-term care insurance/retirement — the Knights of Columbus — so why not use the knowledge of the KoC and create a churchwide healthcare plan that people could buy into?

The benefits:
01.) You’d have so many members that it would lower rates. The reason corporations like UPS can offer fantastic benefits is that they’ve got 80,000 employees. Ditto with a denomination like the ELCA which had *fabulous* benefits for clergy and their families that I miss terribly. If the Catholic Church had its own insurance plan (which could be administered by someone like Aetna or Blue Cross/Blue Shield), it would be the largest in the country and could offer better rates than *anyone* else.
02.) You’d be able to specify no contraception, no abortiofacients, etc. As the insurer of your religious organizations, you’d be able to specify what you could not cover for religious reasons. This would qualify for an exemption for religious purposes.
03.) As the largest insurer in the country, you’d have a pretty decent voice in healthcare policy. If you’re insuring millions of people and providing affordable/comprehensive care, insurance companies are going to be listening because, dude, they’ll want to do business with you. The insurance industry is not non-profit by any stretch of the imagination. (It’s partially why costs are so exorbitant but that’s another rant for another time.)

So is the Church going to start its own insurance program? Probably not. That’s for the USCCB to decide and this little Lutheran doesn’t have their ear. The community covenant at Franciscan is workable though.

Why yes, I know I’m not Catholic. However, I’ve rarely seen Catholic bloggers hold their tongues when it comes to things happening with Protestants; and instead of just criticizing Franciscan for their policy, I’m actually making a valid suggestion as to how to fix it.

Hymns that Speak to Me Right Now (VI)

I posted a lot of these (like 5 of them) during Lent and I think this is a series that I’d like to continue.

Our selection this time is “Open Now Thy Gates of Beauty” that is used as a processional hymn/gathering hymn/opening hymn in a number of Protestant denominations, mainstream and conservative alike. The tune is Unser Herrscher by Joachim Neander (composed in 1680 — my taste in hymns settings is “the older the better”) and the lyrics are:

Open now thy gates of beauty,
Zion, let me enter there,
Where my soul in joyful duty
Waits for Him Who answers prayer.
Oh, how blessèd is this place,
Filled with solace, light and grace!

Lord, my God, I come before Thee,
Come Thou also unto me;
Where we find Thee and adore Thee,
There a heav??n on earth must be.
To my heart, oh, enter Thou,
Let it be Thy temple now!

Here Thy praise is gladly chanted,
Here Thy seed is duly sown;
Let my soul, where it is planted,
Bring forth precious sheaves alone,
So that all I hear may be
Fruitful unto life in me.

Thou my faith increase and quicken,
Let me keep Thy gift divine,
Howsoe??er temptations thicken;
May Thy Word still o??er me shine
As my guiding star through life,
As my comfort in my strife.

Speak, O God, and I will hear Thee,
Let Thy will be done indeed;
May I undisturbed draw near Thee
While Thou dost Thy people feed.
Here of life the fountain flows,
Here is balm for all our woes.
(HT: Net Hymnal)

I love it. because it totally describes the way we should be as we head into Mass/worship/prayer: open to hearing God’s voice with the realization that God is present.

I’m amazed that I found this on YouTube but there *is* a video. Woo. It’s from the installation of a bishop in the ELCA so they have the phatty organ and handbells with a sweet choir. You’ll see women processing in wearing their stoles — the ELCA ordains women as pastors. The last man in the procession who is tall/thin/bearded is Bishop Mark Hanson, the presiding bishop of the ELCA. I actually *like* this particular YouTube video because it shows us Lutherans doing church music well. The congregation is singing in addition to the choir and handbells, which is how I think hymns should be done.

OK… WordPress apparently hates me tonight so click here to see it.

The Simple Woman’s Daybook: April 30, 2012

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FOR TODAY April 30, 2012

Outside my window… sunny and warm — probably in the 80’s. I hate heat so I’m inside.

I am thinking… that I’d really do better in the Pacific Northwest climate-wise.

I am thankful… that Daniel is taking a nap right now and that he has adjusted to school.

In the kitchen… ummm… it’s clean?

I am wearing… grey maternity shirt and navy blue running shorts.

I am creating… this entry and plans for a personal blogathon to raise money for my Reece’s Rainbow kid.

I am going… to have to shave my legs before too long — it’s shorts weather.

I am wondering… why I have a headache other than the fact that I was up waaaaaay past my bedtime last night.

I am reading… Style, Sex, and Substance ed. by Hallie Lord.

I am hoping… things cool down around here. It seems wrong that it’s in the 80’s at the end of April in Sacramento.

I am looking forward to… Ladies’ Night Out on Wednesday.

Around the house… it’s clean thanks to my parents coming up and the need to clean for them.

One of my favorite things… quiet.

A few plans for the rest of the week: Ladies’ Night Out, heading to San Jose on Friday, and the Promise Walk for Preeclampsia on Saturday.

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Some Thoughts on Extemporaneous Prayer

Jeanne of Knowledge Hungry talked about some habits she wanted to change in her life and one of them was prayer. Quoting her:

Prayer. I have a habit of praying, to be sure. I pray the Liturgy of the Hours daily (morning, evening and night prayer), and I pray the Rosary at least four days a week. I??d like to pray the Rosary every day. Some weeks I do, but others I slack off. I??d also like to improve my ??informal communication?? with God in spontaneous prayer.

Being Lutheran, I can’t exactly help her with the Rosary other than suggesting she maybe schedule times to pray it in a day planner. (That would, at least, be my strategy.) I can, however, talk about spontaneous or extemporaneous prayer. It’s something I’ve seen some of the #Cathsorority ladies talking about on Twitter and as one who seems to be doing that kind of prayer most of the time these days, I’ve got a few suggestions for those who want them.

Oh yes… I should also mention that I’m a huge fan of liturgical prayer like Morning Prayer, Evening Prayer, and Compline (night prayer). Lutherans do have these in our hymnals. (Trust me… I’ve done all three.)

[+] The way I seem to be doing much my extemporaneous praying these days is going through my blogroll. Not all the sites are blogs (most aren’t) but I still hit a number of personal sites. I have Brett (my Reece’s Rainbow child) in it so I pray for him when I hit his donation page. Another way it will happen is going through my Google reader. I might happen to see that Anna is having problems so I’ll pray for whatever those problems are, whether they be emotional or issues with her leucine levels. (She has MSUD and is waiting for a liver transplant.) Her mom has a blog set up for the whole transplant process and it helps me to know how to pray for her and for Anna.

[+] If I know something is coming up, I might put it in a scheduler on my laptop so I can look at it and see who needs specific prayers that day. Example: Katie of NFP and Me will be taking her boards in a couple months and if she tells me the date(s) (hint hint hint), I can put it in my scheduler and make sure I pray for her that day. I do the same thing if someone tells me that they’ve got a really tough doctor’s appointment or if someone tells me that they have another thing in their life scheduled that needs prayer.

[+] Twitter is another way I do the above two. I read my tweets pretty fanatically and if someone expresses something that I think deserves my attention, I’ll say a short prayer about it. For those wanting some words, I usually say something like this when someone is sick or has a medical issue: “Lord, you are our Great Physician and the healer of our souls. Bless _____________ and restore them to good health. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.”

This is how I do it. How do you do it?

7 Quick Takes: Cute Little Boys, Fundraising Pleas, and Human Rights Petitions

7 Quick Takes

Spring has come to Sacramento which means the air conditioner is turned on again. Whee!

— 1 —

Is there anything better than eating Cheerios and watching Winnie the Pooh with a cute little boy on your lap? I think not!

Just hanging out.

(The little boy fell asleep shortly after this picture was taken. He loves to nap on someone’s lap.)

— 2 —

Daniel is fully adjusted to preschool. We had an hour of tears on Monday, maybe a minute of them on Tuesday, and smooth-sailing the last two days. He likes his teacher and aides and they are positively smitten with him. I’m so thankful that the local public school campus where they house the state preschool classes is only a block away and that the teacher for the autism class does it because she loves the kids. Next Friday, he gets to go to the local zoo with his class and I’m excited for him to experience his first field trip.

— 3 —

There are no words to adequately express my horror and disgust at this. In a nutshell, the dictator of Uzbekistan has ordered the forced hysterectomy of women without their knowledge or consent. Please join with me in signing the petition to Secretary of State Clinton to cut off U.S. funding from this monster.

— 4 —

My mom sent me an interesting article about an autism study conducted by the University of Washington. Apparently, there are differences in white brain matter present in kids with autism. This actually isn’t a surprise because we know that Daniel’s MRI last year showed some white matter abnormalities. I’m not taking this as a “surefire” sign that predicted Daniel’s autism but it is an interesting idea.

— 5 —

Anyone else excited for the crossover between Hawaii Five-0 and NCIS: Los Angeles? I’d prefer one with just the NCIS shows but I’ll take this one. I’m probably not going to be able to watch Hawaii Five-0 on Monday night as it conflicts with Hart of Dixie so I’ll just catch it online while Daniel is at preschool that Tuesday.

— 6 —

I have a blog set up for Brett. I would blog for him here but I have to use my last name to do that and I keep that off this site because it’s incredibly searchable. I also wanted a site where I could add his adoptive parents as bloggers if they so chose. Peacefulwaters.Org is the domain I use for various projects so it fit that I move a blog over there. I’m having a really bad time with the WordPress on it and I think I’ve re-installed it three or four times. Argh.

— 7 —

I have two weeks until the Promise Walk for Preeclampsia.

Support me in the Promise Walk for Preeclampsia

For more Quick Takes, visit Jen at ConversionDiary.Com.