7 Quick Takes — Writing About Music, Blegging for Promise Walk Donations, and a Synopsis of My Life

7 Quick Takes

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We didn’t get to have dinner with friends on Friday. Between Daniel and I and the weather, it was not a good idea to venture northward into the Sierra foothills. Daniel was better than Wednesday but had thrown up that morning and I hadn’t slept well meaning that I was not going to be great dinner company. (Sleep deprivation does not do good things to me.) The weather was foul and I actually did well by only going to Elk Grove to get a new router and then for some basic groceries. The upside of the rain was that I just had to leave Daniel’s crib mattress out in the morning and it got washed off.

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Dinner with my parents, evil twin, and his fiancĂ©e was excellent. The only downside was Daniel being grumpy because he couldn’t go outside and play in the rain as well as not having a full nap. Dinner was lovely and it was good to see Sean (the evil twin) and Jeanette again. We also got to see Daniel sign “more” spontaneously as we bounced him on Jeanette’s exercise ball. When he signed it, he got LOTS more bouncing. We’ve been trying to get him to do this for almost 2 years so this was some pretty sweet success.

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Sunday, I slept until 4 p.m. with a few wakings to change Daniel’s diaper and take care of his basic needs. I think my body was kind of tired of me beating it into submission through all the sleep deprivation. Thankfully, our living room and hallway are Daniel-proof and Jon got home at noon so Daniel wasn’t without supervision for too long. (I fell asleep in the recliner in the living room so I would have heard if he was screaming or if something happened.) I also think there was some leftover Sudafed in my system or something?

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My 10th wedding anniversary is Friday so we headed to San Jose today. The purpose of going to San Jose is obtaining cheap babysitting via my parents and also having an Olive Garden close enough for dinner. Yes, I’m aware that Olive Garden is the McDonalds of Italian food. However, I’m trying to be faithful about not eating meat on Fridays and I know that their calamari and minestrone soup are not going to irritate my stomach.

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It’s been nice weather for the past two days. Fortunately (or unfortunately if you have outside plans this weekend), we are supposed to be having rain in the forecast for the next few days. From here, it looks like it will just be north of us and hopefully not in the south bay — I want to have park time with Daniel this weekend. The fresh air is good for him and all the climbing and chasing is good for me.

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I’ve been really blessed by all the music posting I’ve been doing lately. I wrote last week about all the writer’s block I’ve been having. I decided that I’d focus some more of my Lenten writing on hymns and songs that are reaching me. I had been wanting to talk about “Brethren We Have Met to Worship” for a long time as well as the song “If I Stand” by Rich Mullins. The coolest thing about doing the Rich Mullins post is that I found a YouTube video of him performing it. He died in a car accident (for the love of God people, PLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASE wear your seatbelts!!!!) just as I was learning about him and his music so I’ve felt cheated in a way because I never got to see him perform. Finding the YouTube video was an answer to a prayer and desire that I don’t think I’ve ever vocalized.

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At this time 3 years ago, I had swollen hands and some pretty spectacular cankles. My body was starting to feel the effects of the HELLP Syndrome and we didn’t connect the pieces until I went into full-on preeclampsia on the night of April 6th. Being part of the Promise Walk last year was one of the most healing things I think I’ve ever done because I got to know others who had dealt with some of the same things I did. Please sponsor me and help fund studies so that we can know more about this condition and help to prevent it from occurring in others.

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Our Song

For the link-up at NFP and Me

What’s your song? Share a video if there is one?

It’s called “Take Her in Your Arms” and it’s off of a Celtic compilation album that Jon had when we were dating. I heard it the first time and we were hooked. We also didn’t have dancing at our wedding so we’ll use this one as “our song”.

Did you always have a song or did you have to find one?

This just kind of became our song after we first met in person for the first time in March 2000.

Why did you pick this song?

Well, we’re huge Celtic music fans. (Well… we’re Celtophiles in general.) It’s completely silly and snarky but it has a great message — “Take her in your arms and tell her that you love her/ Take her in your arms and hold that woman tight/ Won’t you take her in your arms and tell her that you love her/ If you’re going to love a woman then be sure and do it right!” It’s honestly that simple.

What does it mean to you?

It’s just a reminder that love doesn’t have to be a huge and complicated undertaking.

How was the meaning changed since you first chose it?

It hasn’t changed. We still love it and we still believe in the simplicity of it.

Won’t you share a picture of you two dancing? (Doesn’t have to be a wedding picture!)

We don’t have one of us dancing so here’s just a wedding one.

Us on March 23, 2002

7 Quick Takes — Fruit of a Grumpy Week

7 Quick Takes

It’s been a tough week for blogging. AT&T screwed with our Internet and forced me to have to put posts on hold while I found alternate methods of posting them. When I did get back to posting, I found I had tremendous writer’s block. Oy vey…

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I just saw that “The Big Bang Theory” is being pre-empted by some stupid basketball games. I don’t care who is playing — this is simply unacceptable. The egregiousness of this is on par with CBS News cutting into NCIS: Los Angeles to announce election returns.

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Our router seems to be having hiccups. It worked perfectly fine in Montana and I don’t think it has anything to do with being 2.5 years old. I’m wondering if it’s issues because of the weather (again, it’s curious) or what it is. The package said not to let it near cordless phones or microwaves but as I don’t know of another phone jack in the house, I’m not sure we have a choice. It’s kind of irritating because I’d *like* decent wi-fi. (And yes, I’m aware that this is yet another first world problem.)

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I’m finding that I could probably quote and analyze the entirety of every Sojourners article I read. They manage to speak to me on a level that I rarely find in faith-based publications. There have been articles on discourse, tithing, and retention of 20somethings that are just brilliant beyond anything else I see on those subjects.

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I got the rest of the devotionals written for the family friend of my in-laws. Again, I ended up with weird passages from Acts and in some cases, it was a struggle to find ways to make them applicable. I’ve been asked if I’m going to post any of them on here and the answer is probably “no” because they’re going to be part of a book and I don’t want to deal with copyright issues.

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Daniel is doing better. Those who are on Twitter with me know that he and I made a trip to Urgent Care yesterday at UCD Pediatrics. He had been coughing and after our nap (he fell asleep on top of me and I was “forced” to take a nap with him), he had a low grade fever. This a kid who can go from normal to critical in the period of an hour so I called the advice nurse at UCD Pediatrics and asked her sweetly for a same-day appointment. They had one so I got us dressed, packed what I’d need overnight (basically figuring that he wouldn’t be admitted to the hospital if I came prepared), and drove to Sacramento. The med student who saw us first could hear him wheezing and breathing quickly but her attending couldn’t, mostly because my precious sweetling was in full-on tantrum mode by the time she came in. Her thought was that his cold/allergies exacerbated his asthma and advised us to keep giving him his inhaler over the next 24 hours. (During his tantrum, he worked himself into a gagging fit and coughed up a decent chunk of phlegm so I think that was part of it.) They told me that it was good that I brought him in considering his history (two hospitalizations in a year) but that they wouldn’t have to admit him. Yay. We came home, bathed him, and spent the evening bonding.

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We’ve got a busy couple days ahead of us. We’re headed up north to have dinner with friends tomorrow night and on Saturday, we’re headed to my evil twin’s house for my dad’s birthday celebration. (Yes, he was actually born on St. Patrick’s Day and we are indeed Irish.) He should already have received his present (a gift certificate from Oceanside Photo and Telescope) but I should probably find an irreverant card. (It’s not a milestone birthday so that narrows it down a bit.)

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Do you love babies? I do. I also love their mommies. Preeclampsia is a pregnancy disorder that strikes 5-8% of pregnant women in some shape or form. The only cure is to deliver the baby and if it happens early enough in the pregnancy (earliest is 16 weeks), the baby will not survive. Help mommies keep their babies in the womb longer — sponsor me

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Stewardship and Properly Sourced Foods

Then God said, ??Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; and let them rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over the cattle and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.?? God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. God blessed them; and God said to them, ??Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth.?? Then God said, ??Behold, I have given you every plant yielding seed that is on the surface of all the earth, and every tree which has fruit yielding seed; it shall be food for you; and to every beast of the earth and to every bird of the sky and to every thing that moves on the earth which has life, I have given every green plant for food??; and it was so. God saw all that He had made, and behold, it was very good. And there was evening and there was morning, the sixth day.
–Genesis 1:26-31 (NASB)

It’s a joke within my family (my parents, evil twin brother, and I) that food needs to be properly sourced. Part of it comes from me working at an import brokerage and seeing all the Chinese dumping that goes on in our economy, part of it has to do with all the health recalls of foods and such that have tainted ingredients from China, and part of it is the whole idea of yuppies who shop at Whole Foods to get “organic” fruits and vegetables and cruelty-free products. (I have “organic” in quotation marks because the simple definition of the word is “carbon-based”. In theory, you could grow a plant in a vat of pesticide and it would still be carbon-based and therefore “organic”.) All three things have merit — China does dump a lot of cheaply-made goods into our economy at various points along the supply chain and a lot of their goods (*cough* iPads *cough* iPhones) are made in ways that are unhealthy for the workers and the food unsafe for us to consume. Due to this, a lot of people look for organic foods from places like Whole Foods and Trader Joe’s because they maintain a standard of quality that places like Wal-Mart don’t. It is a definite problem in our society that people pay through the nose for quality in food that should be there in the first place because GMO and processed foods are cheaper.

Looking up at our portion of Genesis, God gives us dominion over the plants and animals. Some people look at this as license to pillage the environment as much as they please because hey… God told us to rule over the earth, right? (Nice try but no.) A better reading of this is that God calls us to be stewards of the earth and make responsible decisions regarding Creation. This ideally means that we kill animals in an ethical fashion and grow our food in the same way. (*glares at Monsanto*) Unfortunately, we’re sinful beings and as such, we have an annoying tendency to cut corners to make a quick buck. It costs more to make things ethically in the U.S. so we send our industries overseas where there is cheap labor and suddenly when people (or pets) start getting sick, we act completely surprised that our bad decision-making had consequences.

So how exactly can we be good stewards of our environment and our food supply (among other things)? Well…

[+] Support your local farmers. I know that in California, even WIC gives checks for fruits and vegetables from farmer’s markets during the summer. Get to know your producers and how they grow their food. If you have ranchers in the area, buy your beef through them. If you know people who raise chickens, buy your eggs and meat from them as well. I know that in Montana, I could have been almost a complete locavore if I had really put my mind to it because I had parishioners who were ranchers, parishioners who sold eggs to supplement their income, the Hutterites sold meat and vegetables, etc. This was in a rural area 25 miles between the two towns with grocery stores. In California, I could do this with vegetables during the summer and possibly even into the winter.

[+] Know the supply chain for your grocery store of choice. This takes some research but it’s worth it. Find out where they buy their meat and their dairy. In Montana, I found out from a parishioner who was part of Farmer’s Union that certain brands of milk at Albertsons were from Montana dairies.

[+] If you take vitamins, look into where they are produced. My mom discovered that the generic supplement she took from Costco was made in China. Yeah… not a good thing, especially with China’s track record. You want to read labels.

[+] Pay attention to where your seafood and meat are from. As much as people whined about country-of-origin-labeling (COOL) in Montana, it’s essential from my perspective, especially as we dealt with cows imported from Alberta where there had been Mad Cow disease. This is also imperative with seafood because there have been problems with restaurants and grocery stores claiming that their fish/seafood was a fish that it wasn’t or that it came from a place where it didn’t. There should be something on each sign in the seafood display saying “Product of [insert country]”. Don’t buy fish unless it states it clearly.

[+] Be aware of where your honey comes from. They actually did tests and a majority of honey bought from the grocery store and labeled as a U.S. product did in fact contain honey from China. Some of that Chinese honey wasn’t honey which truthfully unnerves me greatly. (I can’t remember who was bad and who was good other than Wal-Mart being bad and Trader Joe’s being good. It was on CNN.Com.)

As strange as this sounds, the whole issue of our food supply and sourcing really is a spiritual issue. We are called to take care of each other throughout the Bible (i.e. more verses than I care to quote) and making sure that we are all fed and that our food is safe is a part of that. A clean food supply chain also increases jobs as it allows U.S. farmers to stay on their land longer and to make an honest living.

The Simple Woman’s Daybook: March 12, 2012

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FOR TODAY

Outside my window… sunny and probably in the 50’s or 60’s. Apparently, this equals rain in the eyes of Sacramento weather people. Umm… yeah.

I am thinking… that my little bear should hopefully be going to sleep soon given that I gave him some Benadryl and have changed his diaper a few times.

I am thankful… that the Girl Scouts are going strong 100 years after their founding. I’m also thankful for the cookie program, especially for Samoas which are making me happy (and we’re not going to talk about their effect on my waistline).

In the kitchen… probably heating some Bertolli’s soup or something.

I am wearing… my black Arabic shirt and Jon’s navy “Left Behind” shorts.

I am creating… this entry and pondering ideas for Lenten ones so I can stay with my Lenten discipline.

I am going… to Bible study tonight while Jon stays with Daniel.

I am wondering… how people can claim President Obama is a Muslim when there was the grumping about Pastor Jeremiah Wright in the 2008 election — you know Obama’s PASTOR?!?!?!?!? (“Obama is Muslim” was trending on Twitter today.)

I am reading… Fearless by Max Lucado.

I am hoping… Daniel takes a good nap and goes down easily tonight.

I am looking forward to… various things this week.

I am pondering… things for Lenten writings this week.

A favorite quote for today… “If we discover a desire within us that nothing in this world can satisfy, also we should begin to wonder if perhaps we were created for another world.” — C.S. Lewis

One of my favorite things… Samoas!

A few plans for the rest of the week: Bible study and “Hart of Dixie” tonight, PT tomorrow, speech and mid-week Lenten stuff on Wednesday, OT on Thursday, possibly Confession and dinner with Dean and Kym on Friday, and family gathering for my dad’s birthday on Saturday at my evil twin’s house.

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Blessings

Mi amiga Kate, who is working this Lent to “be as tame as other household kates” (sorry… couldn’t resist the temptation!), posted about the “blessings” in her life for her Quick Takes this week. (Check out her “Hey Girl” pic which features her hilarious and holy husband Adam who is seriously tatted out in a way that makes his job as a youth minister amusing.) After realizing that I had completely forgotten to put something in the queue last night to post today, I thought I would give you some Laura Story as well as counting my blessings.

On to my blessings (in no particular order):

-being saved by grace through faith in Jesus Christ
-God’s love
-Jon
-Daniel
-my cats
-multiple boxes of Samoas in the house
-a roof over my head
-Internet
-food to eat
-Daniel taking a nap right now so I can blog and answer emails
-a college degree
-a library card
-my NOOK and books to read on it
-a sushi place nearby
-Daniel’s smile
-friends online and in real life
-access to medical care
-a Trader Joe’s within reasonable driving distance
-an orange tabby with an excellent motor and a nice belleh
-a beautiful house panther (even if she is incredibly needy)

The Simple Woman’s Daybook: February 20, 2012

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FOR TODAY February 20, 2012

Outside my window… gray and yucky when I got up. Much nicer now though probably still cold.

I am thinking… that it was a good idea to give Daniel some Benadryl after his second (?) vomit episode this morning. He’s on juice and Cheerios at the moment and we’ll add stuff in as he does better.

I am thankful… for the goulash and spaetzle I brought home with me from my parents’ house. It was two meals worth that I didn’t have to cook.

In the kitchen… the leftover goulash and spaetzle. Also coming up with meatless ideas for this week.

I am wearing… blue maternity shirt and penguin pajama bottoms.

I am creating… ideas for posts for my Occupying Lent category.

I am going… to check on Daniel when I’m done with this.

I am wondering… why my Obama button looks so skewed on Firefox even though I re-sized it and re-uploaded the smaller version.

I am reading… Still: Notes on a Mid-Faith Crisis by Lauren Winner. I also snuck in The Chocolate Castle Clue by JoAnna Carl this weekend.

I am hoping… I don’t have a dentist visit this week given my jaw pain.

I am looking forward to… my massage on Friday and my brother and sister-in-law coming on Saturday.

Around the house… clean living room floor. Yay!

I am pondering… what to write about on Wednesday when I start my Occupying Lent series.

A favorite quote for today… “The real problem is not why some pious, humble, believing people suffer, but why some do not.” — C.S. Lewis

One of my favorite things… teryaki chicken at my favorite sushi/noodle bar.

A few plans for the rest of the week: PT tomorrow, speech and Ash Wednesday on Wednesday, OT on Thursday, massage and cleaning on Friday, and time with family on Saturday.

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