7 Quick Takes: June Blogs Edition

7 Quick Takes

I’m on the road from Salem to northern Washington as most of you are reading this. I pre-wrote it and scheduled it while sitting in Pep Boys on Monday. I’ll have someone *coughcoughcoughBethAnnecoughcoughcough* link it up at Kelly’s when the link-up for this week’s Quick Takes goes live.

**UPDATE** I got waylaid by car troubles in central Oregon and will be heading the rest of the way to northern Washington tomorrow. In the meantime, I get to enjoy a lovely motel room and a few more days of Internet access. (I’m trying to look for the positives in wondering if my engine had died yesterday.)

Meanwhile, enjoy some vacation stories from my past.

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Canada 1996. My grandparents used to own a cabin in the wilds of British Columbia and every year from the time I was 5 until I was 20, I spent a week or more up there. Power was done by a generator and gas/oil. We’re talking so remote that our only communication with the outside world was a radio.

Anyway, my mom and grandmother had seen a bear the night before while walking through the woods to the garden and we were a little on edge about that. The next morning, I was out walking to the Point with my mom and as we walked into a clearing, a teenaged bear appeared. (It was easily twice my size.) I looked at it. It looked at me. I quickly fled the scene and it ran off in the other direction. My nickname was Goldilocks for the rest of the trip.

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Ireland 1998. I kissed the Blarney Stone. (Nobody who knows me is incredibly surprised.) To do this, you’re walking around the periphery of the top of Blarney Castle… and there’s a very thin boundary that is protecting you from falling down several floors into the center of the castle. Did I mention that I’m afraid of heights?

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London 1998. We had a 24-hour layover in London on our way to Ireland so we got hotel rooms and spent the next day exploring. We were the last people allowed in Westminster Abbey that day (it was Holy Saturday and they were prepping for 2000 people that would be attending Easter worship the next day) because my mom claimed I was a pilgrim. (It wasn’t a lie. I *WAS* Episcopalian and Westminster Abbey is part of my spiritual heritage.) It was simply amazing to see all the tombs of the kings and queens, take in the quiet, and see Poet’s Corner. I was also completely gobsmacked at how BIG it was. I mean, my jaw was hitting the floor when we saw it. My mom leaned over and informed me that the cathedral in Cologne, Germany (where she had just been on a business trip) was 4-5 times larger.

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Del Norte Redwoods. We camped up the coast a lot when I was younger because it was cheaper than staying in motels. One of my favorites places is Del Norte Redwoods. It’s peaceful and just looks like a fairy kingdom belongs in the park. It’s meditative to sit and watch the sunbeams streaming through these huge trees and fun to climb on trunks of trees that are hundreds of years old and were felled by natural disasters.

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Vancouver 1996. We took the train from Mt. Vernon, WA to Vancouver, British Columbia to see “Showboat” and stayed in the Georgian Court Hotel. The show was fabulous and exploring Vancouver the next day was awesome. It’s one of my favorite cities and I look forward to visiting it after the move.

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Eel River 1991. This was another one of those “camping up the coast” trips and we stayed at a campground near the Eel River. I have good memories of swimming and trying to float the river.

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Sunset Beach 2016. Not really a vacation as much of a day trip. It’s bloody hot in San Jose right now so we decamped to the beach after Daniel’s psych appointment on Friday. (I would post pictures but WordPress is being spazzy. *kicks it*) Daniel loved the water and I wish I could have gotten a picture of me holding him before chucking him into the waist-deep water. (My cell phone was up on the beach because it doesn’t like salt water very much.)

For more Quick Takes, visit Kelly at This Ain’t The Lyceum.

June Blogs: Hevel

First of all I’d like to thank Jen for the opportunity to guest post on her blog!

My name is Hevel, and I’m a 34-year-old Irish born Israeli man living with my fiancé and our kids and pets in the most gay friendly city in the Middle East. Maybe it is the only gay friendly city in the Middle East. I’m an ESC (Eurovision Song Contest) fan, a reader of urban fantasy, a crocheter, and these days more and more of the stereotypical gay rights/disability inclusion advocate that your priest has warned you about. When I can find the time I blog at Kosher Kola.

I started reading Jen’s posts several years ago when I first discovered Seven Quick Takes. I loved that there was a non-Catholic voice! I stopped doing or reading Seven Quick Takes, but I still love Jen and her blog!

Summer in my early childhood usually fell during a random weekday. Nowadays our winters remind me of those summers! There are many very different memories of summer in my mind, from my first visit to the Western Wall as a 13-year-old and realizing my own Jewishness, to enjoying a very special summer in Kerala, India, where I could learn first hand about the peaceful coexistence of many world religions, to the Gay Pride Parade two years ago in Tel Aviv with the theme of families when we had the after party in an awesome park with the best playground as our kids played, and enjoyed finally meeting others with same sex parents.

I think, however, that my favourite summer memory is from the summer of 2006. Kevin and I were still living in Budapest, Hungary with our then much smaller family. My grandparents came to visit us from Eilat, Israel. It had been almost 50 years since the last time they had been in the city of their youth, having left in late October 1956. Despite having access to some of the nicest hotels in the city, they chose to stay with us, in the very house that my great-grandfather built for his growing family. During those two weeks I had the opportunity to accompany them to many places in the city and in the countryside as they revisited sites of their lives. We had coffee in the trendy coffee shop that is now at the site of the cake shop where my great-grandfather bought ice cream for his children on Sundays after school. We went to the ice skating rink where Grandpa first met my Grandma. It being the summer it was a small lake, and Grandpa took Grandma on a romantic row boat ride. The kids and I went with them to Palatinus, a pool on Margaret Island where they hung out with friends before the war tore into their lives, and the Jewish laws forced them out. There is a photo from the early 50s with my grandparents and their four young children there, too. And then, many decades later, they were back there. We all ate a lángos, and the adults had a beer, and my grandma, then already over 80, wore a two piece bathing suit.

It was lovely to see them enjoy themselves and relive memories. Some of those memories were sad, stemming from the incredible loss they suffered when the Shoah chopped off many a branch from our family tree. Most, however, was filled with joy only those can experience who truly live and cherish their lives.

June Blogs: The Sitch

As you are reading this, I will be on the road to Washington. Tonight is my last night of reliable Internet access for around 8 days and instead of taking yet another blog break, I put out the word to some of my friends on Twitter and Facebook that I needed a few people to do some guest posts and have ended up with some pretty interesting ones from friends who are all very different from each other. I hope you enjoy reading them.

My Quick Takes will be pre-written and I’ll have somebody *coughcoughcoughBETHANNEcoughcoughcough* link them up for me on Thursday night/Friday morning when the link-up goes live.

In the mean time, please lift up some prayers for good roads, safety while driving, and good weather for us.

Thanks and blessings on your week!