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#FiveFaves: Miscellanea (XXXII)

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I’m fighting some pretty bad insomnia due to the 96F heat here today (no, I am not kidding) so here are some things that I’m loving right now.

One

“Shake It Off” by Taylor Swift. It’s a bit embarrassing to admit that I *gasp* like something by her but it’s a good song for my life right now…

Two

Donna Andrews’ books. Absurdist literature meets murder mysteries. I’m reading Some Like It Hawk! right now and the town of Caerphilly is having a street fair kind of thing to get the buildings back that were foreclosed upon by the former mayor who allegedly embezzled the redevelopment funds and didn’t pay on the note. The lender has armed guards guarding the courthouse to make sure that nobody brings any food into the town clerk who has sequestered himself in there and the townfolk refer to them as “flying monkeys” because of their uniforms. It’s good enough that I’ve been blowing off online time to read it.

Three

Daniel. My kiddo saw his doctor on Monday and we found out that he has gained 3 pounds since the last time and is now 3’11” which means he has 14 inches to go before he surpasses me in height. I think my mother-in-law has an online pool going on when that will be. #shortpeopleproblems

Four

Cool sheets on bare skin. It’s getting me through the heat wave.

Five

Trader Joe’s. It’s simply the best store out there. End of discussion.

Go love up Rachel and the others.

The Simple Woman’s Daybook: April 26, 2015

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FOR TODAY April 26, 2015

Outside my window… dark. It’s 11:30 here on what was actually a very nice day — one of the first in the last week or so when I haven’t had a headache from all the pressure changes. I don’t know what the ultimate temperature was outside but I was comfy in shirt sleeves.

I am thinking… about all that I need to accomplish this week.

I am thankful… for Daniel going to bed at a decent hour tonight. He didn’t go down until almost 9 p.m. last night and woke me up at 5:30 this morning. Not good.

In the kitchen… it’s clean except for my dishes in the sink. I will probably make something I can eat on for a couple days but I haven’t figured out what it will be yet.

I am wearing… my Run for the Little Flowers shirt and black capri sweats.

I am praying for… a call for Jon, for my grandma’s neurologist to figure out what is going on, and for some special intentions for various people in my life.

I am going… to the bank and a few other places tomorrow.

I am wondering… when I’ll have the time to formulate the post I’ve been wanting write on vaccines. It sure didn’t happen this weekend!

I am reading… a lot of things at the moment. I finished Searching for Sunday by Rachel Held Evans on Friday and I think y’all need to go out and buy it as well as her book on Biblical womanhood. Other than that, I’ve read/finished Can’t Wait to Get to Heaven by Fannie Flagg and read/finished The Real Macaw by Donna Andrews. Next on the agenda: Some Like It Hawk by Donna Andrews.

I am hoping… to actually be productive tomorrow.

I am looking forward to… Bible study on Wednesday.

I am hearing… Seven Songs by Amanda Opelt. She is Rachel’s younger sister and anyone who pre-ordered Rachel’s book got a download code for Amanda’s debut album. I’m liking it — kind of bluesy folk rock.

Crocheting… edging on an afghan for a wedding shower present, Daniel’s “big boy” blankie, and an amigurumi stuffed animal for a friend.

Around the house… silence. I am the only one awake (as usual).

A favorite quote for today… “For me, talking about church in front of a bunch of Christians means approaching a microphone and attempting to explain the most important, complicated, beautiful, and heart-wrenching relationship of my life in thirty minutes or less without yelling or crying or saying any cuss words.” — Rachel Held Evans, Searching for Sunday

One of my favorite things… Bejeweled. It’s my go-to thing for sorting out my brain.

A few plans for the rest of the week: sort/clean out storage unit, Daniel’s doctor appointment on Monday afternoon, Daniel’s IPP with the Regional Center on Tuesday afternoon, Bible Study on Wednesday, and whatever comes up in terms of readying stuff to be moved to my sister-in-law’s house on Saturday. Oh yes… also the bridal shower on Saturday so the afghan needs to be done.

Post Script… This is a song I heard on Air1 these past few weeks that I’m loving. It’s “Brother” by NEEDTOBREATHE.

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7 Quick Takes: Me Running My Mouth Again…

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— 1 —

Can we say “duh”? News flash: Measles Vaccine Still Doesn’t Cause Autism. The paper on this is here. I will be writing more about this in order to explain the scientific bases of all of this in the next week or so.

Until then… VACCINATE YOUR FREAKING KIDS!!!! And for those who claim a selective/delayed vaccine schedule is a good thing, your argument has been proven invalid in this study.

— 2 —

Wonderful concert. I was blessed to be able to hear the Claremont Chamber Choir sing tonight at the Drinkward Recital Hall at Harvey Mudd College. One of the basses was conducting it as part of his studies toward a DMA in Conducting. It was interesting to watch Dr. Charles Kamm (the actual director) sing because he was so expressive and looked like he was having a lovely time.

Seriously, one of the positives of my living situation is that I have free concerts in the community that are of serious quality. Tonight’s concert was a collection of madrigals and folk music from around the world and it was heavenly.

— 3 —

Rachel Held Evans’ most recent book. I finished Searching for Sunday by Rachel Held Evans today and I highly recommend it to anyone wondering why Millenials are leaving the faith in droves as well to those who have left the faith and might be slightly amenable. Rachel’s sister Amanda is a singer/songwriter and she composed a few songs based on the sacraments framing the book. Everyone who pre-ordered the book received a download code for the album and I found them to be positively fabulous.

Another person created seven pictures of birds based on things they read in the book. I think my favorite one is for “Communion” and involves hummingbirds drinking around a flower.

— 4 —

A thank you. I was at Target with Daniel this afternoon and decided to have him put stuff on the belt to practice good behavior while shopping. The woman in front of us watched for a bit and complimented him on how he was doing. She then looked up at me and said, “You’re a good mother.”

I honestly don’t think she realized how much I needed to hear that after Daniel had a rather public tantrum on Sunday.

— 5 —

On the subject of kids and cats… I saw this online a few days ago and had to share. It’s a tongue-in-cheek list of reasons that kids should never have cats. It’s amusing to say the least.

— 6 —

Love. I’ve missed two Sundays due to fibro-related fatigue so Bible study on Wednesday was one of my chances to connect to church. I ended up sitting next to one of our founding members M who is 94 and reminds me so much of my grandma. Our priest was passing around pictures she took while walking the Camino de Santiago last year and M had just gotten shots in her eyes so she couldn’t see them. I spent much of Bible study taking her hand and pointing out various things in the pictures for her. When Bible study ended, she gave me a hug and told me she loved me.

No lie, it brought me to tears at that point and remembering it brings me to tears now because she reminds me so much of my grandma who I thankfully got to see a few months ago (for the first time in 4 1/2 years) but who I miss dreadfully. (She’s in Washington and I’m in southern California.)

— 7 —

Weekly trash-talking regarding baseball. I do believe my boys (the Giants) done swept my husband’s boys (the Dodgers). And wait… don’t I recall Jon saying that he’d get a pedicure in Giants’ colors if they swept like that? To the nail place we go!

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The Simple Woman’s Daybook: April 19, 2015

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FOR TODAY April 19, 2015

Outside my window… dark. I didn’t get online until I was putting Daniel to bed and I opened my laptop to do my lectionary reading for today. (I missed church due to a fibro flare.)

I am thinking… about something that happened to me today and wondering if there will be any ripples because of it.

I am thankful… to have gotten through today and to have emptied 5 boxes from the storage of the many sitting in the living room.

In the kitchen… nothing at the moment. I’ll probably do some cooking ahead in the next few days.

I am wearing… green shirt and capri sweats.

I am praying for… a call for Jon, vocal skills for Daniel, and a bunch of special intentions.

I am going… to have lots of stops tomorrow morning for errands.

I am wondering… how people can claim to believe in scientific research and and then reject it based on the word of someone who knows nothing about the subject whatsoever. (Food Babe fans and anti-vaxers, I’m talking to you.)

One of my favorite Neil DeGrasse Tyson quotes.

I am reading… Searching for Sunday: Loving, Leaving, and Finding the Church by Rachel Held Evans. Y’all need to go get your hands on a copy of this book if you have anything to do with people in your church who were born after 1980.

I am hoping… for decent sleep tonight and that tomorrow goes well for me.

I am looking forward to… Bible study on Wednesday with my wonderful church ladies.

I am hearing… various YouTube videos.

Crocheting… the edging on a blanket for a wedding shower, still working on Daniel’s big boy blankie, and crochet a stuffie for a friend.

Around the house… silence.

A favorite quote for today… “I told them we’re tired of the culture wars, tired of Christianity getting entangled in party politics and power. Millenials want to be known by what we’re for, I said, not just what we’re against. We don’t want to choose between science and religion or between our intellectual integrity and our faith. Instead, we long for our churches to be safe places to doubt, to ask questions, and to tell the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable. We want to talk about the tough stuff — biblical interpretation, religious pluralism, sexuality, racial reconciliation, and social justice — but without predetermined conclusions or simplistic answers. We want to bring our whole selves through the church doors, without leaving our hearts and minds behind, without wearing a mask.” — Rachel Held Evans, Searching for Sunday: Loving, Leaving, and Finding the Church

One of my favorite things… a quiet and solitary place at the end of the day. I’m an introvert, after all.

A few plans for the rest of the week: errands, Bible study/date night/choir on Wednesday, and a couple other things.

Post Script…

Lora Lee asked for the recipe for my orzo with pesto. Here it is:

1 block pesto (it’s about 1/2 cup to 1 cup for the size my mom uses)
1 16 oz. box of orzo
1 jar pitted kalamata olives (I used a 12 oz. jar from Trader Joe’s.)
1 4-8 oz. container crumbled feta cheese (I used Athenos brand.)
1 bag sundried tomatoes (I used a 3 oz. one from Trader Joe’s.)
1 cup toasted pine nuts (Again, I used an 8 oz. bag from my BFF Trader Joe’s.)

Prepare orzo according to directions on package (boil water, cook for 8-10 minutes, drain). If your pesto isn’t thawed yet (overnight in the refrigerator works the best), stick it in the microwave for 5 minutes on defrost. If you didn’t get pre-toasted pine nuts, you can stick them on a baking sheet and toast in a 300F oven for 3 minutes, watching to make sure they don’t start burning. Drain brine from jar of olives. Once every thing is prepared/toasted/chopped/pitted (if you didn’t get a jar of pitted olives), put everything in a large mixing bowl and mix together. You can use a wooden spoon but my favorite method is to mix it with my freshly-washed hands.

It works well at both room temperature and cold. Refrigerate leftovers… if there are any.

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The Simple Woman’s Daybook: April 13, 2015

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FOR TODAY April 13, 2015

Outside my window… sunny and in the 70’s.

I am thinking… about what Daniel and I will be doing this afternoon when he gets home from school.

I am thankful… that my taxes have been done for a month. I just wish my refund would show up.

In the kitchen… orzo with pesto, pine nuts, kalamata olives, and feta.

I am wearing… my Run for the Little Flowers shirt and black capris.

I am praying for… a call for Jon, relief from my fibro flare (I am so sick of the pain!), and some special intentions.

I am going… on errands with Daniel and my mother-in-law in a little bit.

I am wondering… about God’s timing on some things in my life.

I am reading… Stork Raving Mad by Donna Andrews. I finished Fudge Brownie Murder by Joanne Fluke and read/finished Swan for the Money by Donna Andrews and Miss Julia Lays Down the Law by Ann B. Ross.

I am hoping… to start reading the new Rachel Held Evans book when it comes out tomorrow. I have my NOOK all charged for it!

I am looking forward to… seeing my brother, sister-in-law, and parents in May for my birthday weekend.

I am hearing… games on Daniel’s Leap Pad.

Crocheting… Daniel’s big boy blankie and a baby shower gift for a friend. The fibro flare has put a crimp in my schedule so I’m behind on all of it.

Around the house… robots cleaning, Jon bringing boxes over from the storage unit, and my father-in-law working on a paper.

A favorite quote for today… “I’ve got a pissy Gabon to my back… I’ve got a rambunctious king (cobra) at my feet. Hey! You are a toad today!” — ViperKeeper from this video (Trigger warning: SNAKES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!):

One of my favorite things… Daniel cuddling with Jon.

A few plans for the rest of the week: dealing with our storage unit, helping with a funeral on Wednesday, and honestly whatever else comes up.

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7 Quick Takes: Easter Feast, Fibromyalgia Mimicking Ebola, and Preeclampsia News

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— 1 —

Could I have Ebola? I was going through the new patient paperwork that my doctor sent me and there was a screening sheet for Ebola. I was going through the symptoms and comparing them to the fibromyalgia flare that I’m dealing with. The scary thing: all I’m missing is the fever, vomiting, and hemorrhaging of blood. Everything else matches up perfectly. I can rule it out because I haven’t spent any time in West Africa recently nor do I spend time with anyone who has.

— 2 —

The “Science Babe” takes on the “Food Babe”. As one who has serious eye-rolling episodes over some of the stupidty in people going gluten-free (who are not, in fact, suffering from celiac disease or a wheat allergy), I had to laugh at this article on Gawker in which a chemist takes on the Food Babe. I remember her complete stupidity about the ingredients of a pumpkin spice latté from $tarbux and her arguments on toxicity of ingredients remind me of the idiots who claim that every ingredient in vaccines is a toxin in any dosage. (I’ve taken organic chemistry — I know my stuff and the claims of the anti-vax people are complete lunacy.) Pretty much ANYTHING in a high enough dosage is toxic, including water. I also am rolling my eyes at the fact that her crusade started when she was told that sometimes you just get appendicitis for no good reason — apparently, her doctor failed to tell her that her appendix is a vestigial organ left over from when our bodies had to process large amounts of cellulose.

Apologize to the nice tree.

To be fair, I’m not criticizing people who have a legit problem with gluten — I’m part of the ethnic group in which celiac disease is frequently found (I’m Irish-American and we have a pretty sizeable incidence of it) and I have friends who have severe food allergies that cause them to have to avoid anything involved with wheat. The people I am going after are the ones who are doing the gluten-free thing because it’s trendy or they read about the idea in some book written by a homeopathic quack. Every nutritionist and dietitian I’ve worked with in the last two years has had some rant on the subject.

— 3 —

Jimmy Kimmel on the anti-vax movement. My mom had me watch this when I was home over Daniel’s Spring Break. Best line ever: “Hey, remember that time you had polio? No… you don’t because your parents got you f-ing vaccinated!”

In all seriousness, Mom told me about her memories of classmates who are deaf because of measles or who almost died as a result. Of the (many) people over 55 in my life and whose blogs I read, I’ve only had one person say that they have no memory of problems with all those diseases against which we vaccinate. In fact, almost everyone over the age of 55 is completely flummoxed that we even have this problem with people not vaccinating their kids. As someone with a compromised immune system and who has a kid with one, it’s actually a slap in the face for me that people are so selfish as to not do something that could prevent me or Daniel or my father-in-law (cancer) from getting sick.

— 4 —

Interesting article on preeclampsia. One of the chicas in the HELLP Syndrome Survivor group on Facebook posted a link to this article in The New Yorker and I recommend it. Given my experience with Daniel 6 years ago, I’m all in favor of research on the origins of preeclampsia and methods of treat it.

— 5 —

Speaking of preeclampsia… I’m participating in the Promise Walk virtually this year because there isn’t one near me. I’ll be doing it for my 35th birthday in May instead of getting a tattoo like I’d been planning to do for 5 years. For details, click here.

— 6 —

Spare some prayers for Fulton. Fulton, the son of our Quick Takes hostess Kelly, is in the hospital with respiratory issues. Everything Kelly mentions is something that I’ve dealt with in the last 6 years with Daniel so I feel completely qualified to ask you to PRAY HARD for both Fulton and Kelly. (It’s hard on the mama to have their kid sick and also to live at the hospital for an extended period of time.)

— 7 —

Easter. We had 20+ people here for Easter and it was lovely. As Daniel’s birthday was the 7th, we combined the family feast with a party for him and my parents came down for it. It was wonderful to see them again (even though I’d spent 5 days of the previous week with them) and they got to see some of my life down here. Daniel was very much into his presents and showed well, which is always a relief for us as parents of a child with autism. (Autistic kids tend to not bond with people.) We also had a boatload of leftovers so I’m getting a little sick of ham though I have had no problem with finishing off the tiramisu or the caramel machiatto cheesecake. 😉

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The Simple Woman’s Daybook: April 6, 2015

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FOR TODAY April 6, 2015

Outside my window… dark. It cooled down today and was actually long-sleeves weather when I was at the park with Daniel. It’s supposed to rain tomorrow and I’m getting positively giddy.

I am thinking… about the phone calls I have to make tomorrow to the IRS (I want my tax refund) and to insurance companies/Medi-Cal.

I am thankful… for a wonderful Palm Sunday with my church in San Jose and a wonderful Triduum with my church in southern California. Easter morning was wonderful as well with music at both services and a professional tenor singing with the choir. (We were supposed to have a couple other pros but they got sick.) I’m so incredibly grateful to be part of a church where I’m excited about going on Sunday morning instead of feeling like I want to be anywhere else but there.

In the kitchen… lots and lots of leftovers. We’re eating well this week!

I am wearing… one of my Run for the Little Flowers shirts and black capri sweats.

I am praying for… a call for Jon, comfort and solace for Dayna, and many other things.

I am going… for a walk tomorrow morning.

I am wondering… about a couple things related to the Divine Mercy novena that a few friends are doing. They sound a little weird so I’ll be consulting the hive mind on this.

I am reading… Fudge Brownie Murder by Joanne Fluke. I finished Six Geese A-Slaying and a couple others by Donna Andrews in the last few weeks as well.

I am hoping… to get everything done this week that needs doing.

I am looking forward to… my Wednesday time to myself.

I am hearing… Jon’s CPAP machine as I’m lying in bed doing this.

Crocheting… a baby gift for a friend and also Daniel’s big boy blankie.

Around the house… silence as I am the only one awake.

A favorite quote for today… “Solid-rock faith allows me to believe that despite the chaos of the present moment, God does reign. Regardless of how worthless I may feel, I truly matter to a God of love. No pain lasts forever, and no evil triumphs in the end.” — today’s devotion in Our Daily Bread.

One of my favorite things… Coke — I can have it again now that Lent is over! (I did falter and have some during Lent, a couple of those times on purpose because I needed the caffeine and sugar while I was driving and/or chasing Daniel.)

A few plans for the rest of the week: phone calls tomorrow, meeting with Daniel’s teacher on Wednesday, and other things as they come up.

A peek into my day… I seriously love being part of a church where worship selfies are an expected part of Easter worship. I’m the short chick with glasses and the hymnal.

My choir and clergy.

Post Script…

It has been an interesting time with the Lutherans, especially in churcbes where they only sing songs they know or try to attract young people by doing “contemporary” music. (Not helping, y’all.) I love this hymn which I learned during my first Easter with the Episcopalians about 20 years ago and it brings me happy memories.

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