7 Quick Takes: Flu Shots, the VP Debate, and Other Fun Topics

7 Quick Takes

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The hazards of sleeping in. Daniel’s quarterly ADHD appointment was yesterday and I somehow set my clock forward an hour while trying to turn off my alarm so I was an hour early getting dressed, getting my latté, and arriving at school to pick up the kid. Of course, I discovered this when I looked at my watch while signing him out… and had to tell the secretary (who was on the phone with his teacher) that I was an hour early and would be coming back an hour later to get him. (I ended up going home and doing accounting homework.) When I came back to get him, his incredibly awesome teacher managed not to laugh when she brought him out and I explained what had happened. I’m also very thankful that she came out personally to bring him to the office because other schools would just send an aide. (Then again, his classroom is right across from the office so it was a matter of just popping out of his classroom.)

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Blown away. We managed to get what I thought was the first appointment after lunch because the waiting room and office were pretty empty. (I later learned that his pediatrician takes a late lunch.) Kiddo was in a relatively good mood because it was a school day (he would go to school seven days a week if we let him) and was unusually chill when Dr. Awesome and her medical student came in and talked to us. (As it was an autism appointment, she just needed to make sure the meds were working and continuing to be a blessing for Daniel instead of a curse.) He was totally happy with her until she wanted to take a listen to his lungs. He was not amenable to this but having her listen to his lungs was not negotiable, so kiddo ended up on my lap with me holding him and telling him over and over that she was not hurting him. Other than that, she was fine with just watching him play tablet, talking to me, and surreptitiously observing him.

The nurse had asked when we came in if I wanted my kiddo to have a flu shot and I said “yes” because having to come back again for it was not going to make me happy. Once Dr. Awesome and her student were out the door, two nurses came in and while one of them prepped, the other one explained the game plan to me: put the kid on the table and have me hold down his upper body while one nurse held down his legs and the other one gave him the shot. I’m not even sure that more than five seconds elapsed between me setting him on the table and them being done with the shot — they were that fast! (Then again, they do this all the time so they have a good system.) In any case, I was incredibly impressed and told them this.

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Baseball!!! DIDJA HEAR ABOUT MY BOYS ANNIHILATING THE METS IN THE NL WILD CARD GAME?!?!!?!? DIDJA?!?!?!? DIDJA?!?!?! The trash-talking has already started in anticipation of their play-off games with the Cubs starting Friday.

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My pretty notebook. Jenny of Unremarkable Files asked for pictures of my notebook. I aim to please so here you go, Jenny! I apologize that my lines aren’t straight — I’m drawing all those things freehand and I’m incapable of drawing a perfectly straight line.

My pretty notebook
My pretty notebook
My pretty notebook
My pretty notebook

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Prerequisite take on the VP Debate. I didn’t watch the debate for obvious reasons (as in, I already know who I’m voting for) but I find it amusing that two of my friends who are on opposite sides of the political spectrum and who don’t know each other came up with the same suggestion: each candidate has a shock collar and gets shocked every time they interrupt the other candidate or the moderator. Shocks also happen if they go over their allotted speaking time. THAT would be entertaining!

Another friend (completely unrelated to the other two) suggested that the moderator should get a taser. I’m thinking I like this one better?

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Worth a read. My priest shared this piece on the art of condolence by Bruce Feiler on Facebook this week. I thought it was pretty awesome and a good read for people of every age group.

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You mean my college education is actually a good thing? I saw this story on the news a few days ago and it reiterates why a college degree or at least *SOME* form of post-secondary credential is essential. It doesn’t necessarily have to be a bachelor’s degree but at least some kind of specialized study is needed. So, if you’re going to claim that “not every kid needs to go to college”, think again. 😀

As for my “useless” degree in Religious Studies, it taught me how to learn, how to find research (a skill which I have heard my professors here say is sorely lacking across the board in students from homeschoolers to public schoolers these days), and proves to employers that I can stick something out long-term. If I was still at the import brokerage in Montana, I’d be eligible for management training simply *BECAUSE* I have a bachelor’s degree.

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31 Days of Parenting Kiddos with Special Needs: Blogger Spotlight on Mary of “Passionate Perseverance”

31 Days of Parenting Kiddos with Special Needs

Choosing to do this challenge during this particular October was kind of a crazy idea because I’m currently juggling school, being a mom, my own 3+ times a week attempts at blogging, and making sure all the I’s are dotted/T’s crossed for Daniel. (That last one is separate from being a mom because it’s another full-time job on top of basic parenting.) Knowing this, I built in some “cheater” topics for busy days/weeks and one of them is spotlighting bloggers who have kiddos with special needs. There are some bloggers who were complete no-brainers in terms of inclusion: Mary of Passionate Perseverance, Kelly of This Ain’t the Lyceum!, Rebecca of Backwards in High Heels, Kathleen of So Much to Say…, Cammie of Beyond Pearls, and Sarah of Wifeytini. I’m going to spotlight Mary today and save the rest for other times!

Why I’m spotlighting this blogger: Mary is getting spotlighted because I wish she lived nearby as she is just awesome beyond words!!! (If you don’t believe me, read this post put together by a mutual friend. The author was hoping to get 7 things about Mary to post for 7 Quick Takes but got WAAAAAY more because so many of us wanted to share about her.)

Her daughter Courtney had seizures from infancy onward until she passed away on December 27, 2014 at the age of 22. She spent her life in a wheelchair, receiving tube feedings, and giving her parents and older brother scares like nothing else. I would have been the most bitter and angry person if this had been my life because Court’s level of care was so intense… and Mary *TOTALLY* isn’t. She has the same sense of gallows humor that I do, she went out of her way to encourage mamas like me even when Courtney wasn’t doing well or even in the weeks and months after Court’s passing, she made sure that Court was always dressed to the nines (we’re talking better clothes and outfits than I will ever hope to be able to put together), she chose to be authentic about what she was dealing with daily with Court and how it’s all OK (even when it absolutely sucks in the moment) because love ultimately wins, and she’s now writing books and speaking about her experiences in parenting Courtney. (If you’re in the DC area and need a pro-life speaker, get in touch with her NOW. I mean it.) After Court’s passing, she became the liturgical coordinator at her church which allowed her to be present with grieving families as they were dealing with a profoundly dark time in their lives… which is amazing because she was still dealing with her own grief. She recently made the decision to quit her liturgical coordinator job and is now writing and speaking on life with Court.

Seriously, I will be hugging her and probably bawling my eyes out if we ever get a chance to meet in person because she has been such a support to me (we’ve had Facebook chats while sitting in ER bays with children who seem to enjoy giving us scares), she has done vlogs where she encourages other mamas of special kids (with Courtney in the background making Chewbacca noises), and she just radiates happiness in her faith.

So please, go check out her blog Passionate Perseverance RIGHT NOW!