Soujourners Magazine: Don’t Blame College for Young People Leaving the Church

I saw a link to this on Facebook on Wednesday and thought it might be interesting. It definitely was very eye-opening and affirms the trend I saw in college — young people leaving the church because of hypocrisy on the part of its members. Tim King, Director of Communications for Sojourners and author of the article has this to say:

An entire generation, my generation, is leaving the church. What??s the cause? Santorum blames higher education, telling Glenn Beck last week that “62 percent of kids who go into college with a faith commitment leave without it.”

The ??war on religion?? has become a frequent bogeyman among Christian and political leaders. But the reason church leaders have failed to stem the tide of a generation heading for the exit door is that they keep looking for an outside enemy to blame when the biggest problems are inside the church.

The years young adults spend in college aren??t causing them to leave their faith; those college years are exposing the problems with the faith they grew up with.

The exodus has little to do with liberal college professors, which insurance plans should cover contraception, where mosques are being built, or whether or not the Ten Commandments are hanging in courtrooms, even if many religious leaders act as if these are the greatest Christian ??battles?? of our lifetime.

In doing so, they are actively pushing young people away from religion.

Don??t get me wrong. I don??t think young people are leaving the church in record numbers just because some Christians are Republicans. There are a lot of wonderful Christians who happen to be conservative and who are great witnesses for the faith. Many of them are in my family.

Rather, the exodus is about hypocrisy.

Last year, we saw Christian leaders raising the alarm about the encroachment of ??radical Islamists.?? They call for the restriction of Muslims religious liberties to practice their faith and build houses of worship. But this year, when it comes to contraception, the rallying cry is religious freedom.

Last week, Franklin Graham was asked whether or not he believed President Obama was a Christian. He gave a fair answer when he said it wasn??t his place to judge.

But when asked the same question about the faith of Santorum and Newt Gingrich, Graham??s standards changed. He answered that yes, he did think those men were Christian because of ??political interests?? and ??spiritual interests.?? Graham later backtracked, but the message was already out.

What did a lot of young people hear? To be a Christian you need to look like, talk like and vote like Franklin Graham?? Oh, and something about sinners and grace.

What King neglected to add was that Franklin Graham said that President Obama could be a Muslim because “Muslims have gotten a free pass under his administration”. Has everyone forgotten Obama’s “pastor problem” in 2008? Does the name Jeremiah Wright ring a bell?

I have said that I would keep my mouth shut regarding the president’s GOP challengers and I will just say that Obama’s moral character has not been called into question the same way that former Speaker Gingrich’s character has.

Anyway, it is a valid point that it fails to keep young people in the church when they hear nothing but trash talk from their church members and then the pastor who has been engaging in the trash talk preaches them a sermon on Romans 13:1. It states: “Let every soul be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and the authorities that exist are appointed by God.”

King has more to say:

Such political spectacles are driving a generation away from faith. It almost did for me, an evangelical Christian in my 20s who attends church on an almost weekly basis.

Most of my life I went to private Christian schools or was homeschooled. I had some wonderful examples of faith that inspired me. But as soon as I heard Christians on the radio or saw them on TV, I was ashamed to call myself a Christian.

The Jesus I read about in Scriptures taught love, acceptance, peace and concern for the poor, but the Christian leaders on TV and radio always seemed to be pro-rich, pro-white, pro-America and anti-gay.

By college I was getting ready to leave it all behind.

Thankfully, I had found meaning in work with the homeless and tutoring refugees. I heard Jim Wallis, for whom I now work, speak about God??s heart for the poor and oppressed. I sat in Scot McKnight??s North Park University classes in Chicago and learned about a Jesus who didn??t think like me, talk like me or live like me but who presented a radical challenge to be a disciple of this one they call Christ.

By 2004, I realized that the highest Christian calling in my life might not be to vote Republican. I still casted my ballot, but what was most significant to me that November was inviting 15 homeless men and women into my campus apartment to celebrate Thanksgiving with some other students and spend the night indoors.

I like politics. I think it??s important. Public policy matters because it affects people??s lives every day in ways we often don??t realize. But my primary concern for it comes because it affects the people Jesus called me to love and that the Bible tells me to be a voice for. This is why the use and abuse of religion during this election season is so troubling.

When Franklin Graham sets up double standards of faith for Republicans and Democrats, when Pat Robertson intones about a coming ??secular atheist dictatorship,?? when the Family Research Council??s Tony Perkins goes off about the dangers of repealing Don??t Ask Don??t Tell and other ??anti-family, anti-religious, anti-Christian policies,?? when the great test for the next President of our country is who has ??real?? theology and who has ??phony?? theology, it might make for good sound bites.

But it??s bad faith.

Blaming colleges, like Santorum did, is a lot easier than reforming the church. Finding an enemy outside of your religious faith might keep some young people in line for a little while and is probably great for fundraising. Heck, it might even mobilize an important voting bloc and win a few elections.

But it??s hastening the decline of Christianity for an entire generation.

I’ve heard it said that Christianity is one generation away from extinction. I also deal with the assumption that all young people want is contemporary music and entertainment. I have news for you: what young people want is something that is genuine and real. Yes, something from Hillsong might sound nice but a church with childcare so that parents can attend worship says a lot more. A church that genuinely loves EVERY generation and gives a voice to everyone is a lot more real than a mega-church like Joel Osteen’s where it’s just people worshipping a cult of personality.

What does it say about peoples’ perspective of the Christian faith when I mentally have to prepare to explain that I’m “not like _________ who just appeared on the Sunday morning political shows and talked about how __________ is waging a war on religion and the American identity”? What does it say when my tongue is bleeding because someone at church is going off on how evil [insert group of people] are when in reality I have friends from that culture but it would be inadvisable for me to speak up and risk offending one of the people who are responsible for my husband’s paycheck?

I love King’s closing:

I have a simple request for our nation??s religious leaders who keep finding ??enemies of the faith?? at every turn without ever looking inward. For Christ??s sake, stop talking.

Spend some time in prayer and think about what you say before you say it. Ask yourself, is the political gain, the next spot on cable news or the notoriety I can achieve really worth the damage to the church?

Well played. Perhaps if people realized the power of their words, their speech might be more measured.