The Simple Woman’s Daybook: December 21, 2015

Simple Woman's Daybook

FOR TODAY December 21, 2015

Outside my window… drizzly and in the 50’s. I’m loving it.

I am thinking… about what I need to do in the next few days.

I am thankful… for a warm and sheltered place to be during the rain. Dad made a fire in the fireplace last night and Daniel fell asleep snuggled up against me watching it.

In the kitchen… probably a frozen dinner of some nature. It’s about time for me to figure all of that out for today.

I am wearing… charcoal shirt from Old Navy and jeans from Kohl’s. I’m fairly simple in terms of my fashion tastes.

I am going… to the post office either tomorrow or Wednesday to drop Christmas cards into the mail.

I am wondering… how easily Daniel will go to bed tonight. I’m hoping he’s not too much of a live wire. I’m exhausted from sleeping badly last night.

I am reading… nothing but my read the Bible in a year program at the moment. I read and finished A Place Called Hope by Phillip Gulley last week. It felt a little too close to home but it was still pretty good.

I am hoping… my Shutterfly cards arrive today. *shakes an achy fist at UPS for sending my package to Kalispell and back by way of Helena, Salt Lake City, and San Pablo*

I am looking forward to… seeing my extended family.

I am hearing… a Celtic Christmas CD that Daniel likes. He is currently curled up in my mom’s lap listening.

A Daniel story for today… when I got home on Wednesday from Daniel’s 30-Day IEP meeting, Daniel was sitting on the love seat listening to the Celtic Christmas CD. He then pulled Mom and I onto the love seat with him and just wanted to be cuddled and have his hair stroked. We’re wondering if it was related to it being the first time that I hadn’t met his bus here. (Mom met his bus because I was at the meeting.)

Around the house… the kitchen is almost done being redone. All we need is the tile which will arrive tomorrow.

A favorite quote for today… “In the old days, it was not called the Holiday Season; the Christians called it ‘Christmas’ and went to church; the Jews called it ‘Hanukkah’ and went to synagogue; the atheists went to parties and drank. People passing each other on the street would say ‘Merry Christmas!’ or ‘Happy Hanukkah!’ or (to the atheists) ‘Look out for the wall!” — Dave Barry

One of my favorite things… S’mores ice cream.

A few plans for the rest of the week: getting out of the house tomorrow for the time when the contractor is putting up the tile, doing some last minute shopping at Target,

A peek into my day… A flashback to 6 years ago!

Grandma with Daniel at Christmas 2009.

Post Script… There is an app on Facebook called Cross-Stitch World where you can complete cross-stitch patterns with your mouse. It sounds like a weird thing but I find it very soothing. Go check it out!

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7 Quick Takes: More Islamophobia, UPS Screws Up, and Autism Studies

7 Quick Takes

— 1 —

Really? Apparently, schools in Augusta County, Virginia will be closed tomorrow over the “tone and content” of messages received about a high school lesson in which students were presented with an example of Arabic calligraphy and told to try and copy it to help them understand the artistry involved. It was a World Geography class so it wasn’t like the assignment wasn’t topical. The problem: it was the shahada or statement of belief in Islam and I guess some people erroneously interpreted it as the teacher trying to convert the students even though students were not asked to translate it, recite it or otherwise adopt or pronounce it as a personal belief.

I’m sitting here scratching my head because we did this thing ALL THE TIME in my elementary and middle school classes when we studied Islam as part of world history. As far as I know, nobody ever felt the need or pressure to convert and we understood that the calligraphy was a form of art, kind of like having a lesson in which we were copying Chinese characters.

*starts making tin foil hats for all the people flipping out in Virginia*

— 2 —

More Islamophobia. Last week, a nasty woman made derogatory comments to some Muslims praying at Lake Chabot Regional Park, hit one of them with an umbrella, and threw coffee at them. Today, she was charged. Props to the Alameda County District Attorney for bringing charges! The woman is entitled to believe whatever the heck she wants about Islam but assaulting people over it is crossing a number of lines.

— 3 —

Brain chemical linked to autism. Scientists have discovered that the breakdown of the signaling pathway used by the neurotransmitter GABA is linked to autistic behavior. Wow. I guess it had been shown to be the case in animal models but this is the first time it’s been linked to it in humans.

Maybe research will eventually lead to a medication that can help avoid the breakdown of that particular pathway?

— 4 —

Prerequisite weather take. We’re supposed to be getting rain this weekend. I am positively giddy! Rain can be a migraine trigger for me but I still love it.

— 5 —

Self-promotion. I wrote a blog post about how I put together my Christmas cards every year. Go read it!

— 6 —

UPS is on my naughty list. My Shutterfly cards were supposed to arrive today and were even in San Jose. I logged on to the UPS site to see if they were out for delivery and got the following message:

We’ve incorrectly sorted the package at our facility. This may cause at least one business day delay.

Guess where the package is? Kalispell, Montana! That’s NOT in California, much less probably 10 miles from where I live (or wherever UPS has their sorting facility here). I’m thinking it will be at least Saturday before I can get my cards assembled… and Daniel’s last day of school is tomorrow! (In other words, I’m losing a free morning.) *shakes fist at my former employer*

— 7 —

One more autism study. This one links autism with moms taking anti-depressants during pregnancy. Oops! In my case, I didn’t really have a choice as taking me off of my Effexor XR caused severe nausea, panic attacks, vertigo, and other problems that led to a late night ER run and me being hospitalized to get fluids into me while they tried to get me stabilized. My high-risk doctor instructed them to PUT ME BACK ON MY MEDS WITH ALL POSSIBLE SPEED. Lucky for me, the benefit to the mom outweighs the risk for the baby so I got my Effexor XR back and they dropped me to the lowest possible dose that was still therapeutically beneficial.

As for it being the cause of Daniel’s autism, his genetic testing showed that his autism is the result of some additions and deletions on different genes so I’m off the hook for this one.

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The Simple Woman’s Daybook: December 13, 2015

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FOR TODAY December 13, 2015

Outside my window… dark. It was in the mid-50’s with rain today. I found it positively delightful. Next weekend is supposed to be rainy as well. El Niño is more than welcome in my humble opinion.

I am thinking… about what I need to get accomplished this week.

I am thankful… for the chance to sleep in until 9 a.m. yesterday. I sorely needed it.

In the kitchen… Dad made steak, potatoes, and salad tonight. He also got Cherry Garcia for dessert. Yum!

I am wearing… my VBS shirt from this year and black capri sweats.

I am going… to be working on Daniel’s SSI overpayment appeal this week.

I am wondering… if we’ll have the kitchen back to normal this week. *crosses fingers*

I am reading… some Jessica Beck murder mysteries and Accidental Saints by Nadia Bolz-Weber.

I am hoping… the counters arrive this week so the sink and stove can be installed and I can cook again.

I am looking forward to… seeing family at Christmas.

I am hearing… The Bells of Dublin by the Chieftains. It’s my favorite Christmas album and what we used to put on while decorating the tree.

A Daniel story for today… Mr. Boy curls up on the heating vents in the morning so I curled up with him on the one in the living room this morning and wrapped a blanket around us to keep the heat in. He is a wonderful cuddlebug.

Around the house… people sleeping. I think I’m the only one awake.

A favorite quote for today… “How can God stoop lower than to come and dwell with a poor humble soul? Which is more than if he had said, such a one should dwell with him; for a beggar to live at court is not so much as the king to dwell with him in his cottage.” — William Gurnall

One of my favorite things… Coca-Cola. I know how bad it is for me but it’s irresistible at times.

A few plans for the rest of the week: organize my Christmas card list, work on Daniel’s appeal, knitting group on Tuesday, Daniel’s 30-Day IEP meeting on Wednesday, Bible study on Thursday morning, choir on Thursday night, and whatever else comes up.

A peek into my day… Our anthem from this morning:

Post Script…

My friend Carrie also blogged about gluten-free life for 31 Days of Writing and she compiled all her recipes into a new cookbook. She offered me a copy and after reading it, I am excited about cooking!

I should warn people that it isn’t grain-free in the event that people are following the advice of renowned quack William Davis of Wheat Belly. (I’m not linking to his blog because I don’t want to give him any more hits than necessary.)

Anyway, go check it out!

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7 Quick Takes: Islamophobia, Snark, and Gifts That Keep On Giving

7 Quick Takes

— 1 —

Positively sickened by this. So, people are smashing the windows of a Muslim family in Plano, Texas every night starting 6 weeks after they moved into their house. I am so sickened by the actions of the people doing this. I mean, what the [insert expletive of choice] is wrong with you idiots?!?!?!?!? Apparently, we’ve learned nothing from history at all.

I wish I lived in Plano so I could go help clean up the broken glass, start a GoFundMe campaign to replace the windows, and maybe even stand outside the house with other people to guard the family.

— 2 —

True faith. While Trump and his minions have been spewing dissension and hatred, Muslims in San Bernardino and across the country banded together to raise $100,000 for the victims of the shooting. It’s not surprising that they would do this — charity is one of the tenets of their faith. When I was taking my Islam class 14 years ago, we had dinner with the young adult group of a mosque in Detroit who was raising money and collecting toys for Toys for Tots. Christmas isn’t their holiday but they were helping out anyway.

Having spent time with various Muslim communities in Detroit and knowing the Muslims with whom I grew up, I would rather hang out with them any day of the week over some of the Christians I know and definitely over the people at the church where we worshiped in Detroit on that Sunday morning. Every mosque we visited was warm and welcoming to us, plying us with Turkish coffee and pastries even though they were in the middle of Ramadan and fasting. They asked us with interest about what we were doing and told us stories about their lives in the lands from which some of them came and about their lives as Muslims. The church we attended were very cold to us and talked openly about how they don’t want to engage in conversations with their Muslim neighbors.

— 3 —

For those who come here for the snark… The 2015 Hater’s Guide To The Williams-Sonoma Catalog is out. To be fair, the peppermint candy looks fabulous (one of my weaknesses is mint and chocolate) and I’d love the cookie cutters or the cookie press but… the rest of it caters to pretentiously rich people who have no understanding of what things actually cost in the real world and who have the money to throw away on this stuff.

— 4 —

Fibromyalgia memes. I saw this list of 44 memes that nail what it’s like to have fibromyalgia. My favorites are #7, #10, #13, #14, #19, #23, #25, #28 (OMG… THIS ONE!!!!), #36, #37 (I need this on a t-shirt), #38, #41, and #43. They also need one that says something along the lines of “No, I can’t just take some Tylenol. This is nerve pain.”

— 5 —

The Onion for Catholics. If you haven’t heard of Eye of the Tiber, it’s a satirical site like the Onion except that it’s about the Catholic Church. Example: Vatican To Project Microsoft Bubbles Screensaver Onto St. Peter’s Whenever Basilica Not In Use which pokes fun at the nature slideshow that was projected onto St. Peter’s Basilica a few nights ago. There’s a fabulous interview with the person behind it that I recommend reading.

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Gift that keeps on giving. If you’re looking for the perfect gift for someone in your life who is into finance, social justice, and for whom it is hard to find a good present, consider a gift card for a a Kiva loan. You read through a bunch of profiles and pick one that speaks to you. That person is loaned $25 for their small business/personal improvement and they pay it back over time. Once it is paid back, you have the option of Kiva cutting you a check for the $25 or the option to re-loan it. I think I’ve made close to 20 Kiva loans and most of them are re-loans of the original $25. My day is seriously made every time I get an email saying that I have $25 in Kiva credit because that means I get to make another loan.

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Another gift that keeps on giving. Kelly mentioned Heifer International in her post on gift giving that matters and Connected in Hope (which also inspired the above Quick Take). I highly recommend them as well. You buy an animal or shares of an animal and it gets donated to someone in the Third World along with the training for that animal/plant/livestock. The animal provides milk/fleece/eggs/whatever and the money from that pays for school fees or medicine or whatever the family needs in terms of living expenses. When they reproduce, the offspring is given to someone else to pass on the gift and to change the original recipients into donors, a change that gives them some pride and self-worth. In the last few years, they’ve also given people the option of contributing to basic needs in the way of things like water, nutrition, and stoves. I love them because they’re all about empowering people to get out of poverty. Their gift catalog is here.

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The Simple Woman’s Daybook: December 6, 2015

Simple Woman's Daybook

FOR TODAY… December 6, 2015

Outside my window… dark. It was in the 60’s earlier when I got out of church. (Granted, it’s technically 1 a.m. on the 7th as I’m writing this.)

I am thinking… that Daniel really needs to be going back to sleep. *looks at the small child who is finding new and creative ways to fall asleep while touching me*

I am thankful… that Daniel was a complete angel today. He snuggled with my mom, focused on his Legos and engaged in focused play, and went to sleep with no drama tonight. The current round of wakefulness is mostly due to me daring to get out of bed to use the bathroom and disturbing his sleeping position (his head on my stomach and the rest of him contorted around me).

I am wearing… charcoal shirt and black capri sweats — my jammies.

I am creating… this entry. 🙂 Also a big boy blanket for my wee bairn.

I am going… to try and find a provider who will see my kiddo on straight Medi-Cal so I can avoid having to deal with the county hospital’s pediatric urgent care. Kiddo runs out of Adderall on Wednesday and I don’t want him missing any days as we’re seeing some serious improvement with him on it.

I am wondering… when I’ll be able to do some Christmas shopping.

I am reading… a bunch of Jessica Beck murder mysteries. I also have Accidental Saints by Nadia Bolz-Weber on my e-reader for the time when I run out of library books.

I am hoping… my kiddo goes back to sleep and stops balancing on his elbow on my leg. It’s causing me a bit of discomfort. *gives the kid a sideglance*

I am learning… to back up my data lest I have to take my laptop to Best Buy again to have them extract all my data.

In my kitchen… Dad made steak for dinner. Yum.

A favorite quote for today… “I am trying here to prevent anyone saying the really foolish thing that people often say about Him: I’m ready to accept Jesus as a great moral teacher, but I don’t accept his claim to be God. That is the one thing we must not say. A man who was merely a man and said the sort of things Jesus said would not be a great moral teacher. He would either be a lunatic — on the level with the man who says he is a poached egg — or else he would be the Devil of Hell. You must make your choice. Either this man was, and is, the Son of God, or else a madman or something worse. You can shut him up for a fool, you can spit at him and kill him as a demon or you can fall at his feet and call him Lord and God, but let us not come with any patronizing nonsense about his being a great human teacher. He has not left that open to us. He did not intend to.” — C.S. Lewis

One of my favorite things… Definitely this list of fabulous Christmas carols. Someone even made a playlist of all the YouTube videos she mentioned:

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{five favorites}: Miscellanea (LIV)

#5Faves

One

Fauré’s Requiem. As I was packing up some things for Goodwill this morning, I had a playlist on my iTunes on random and several of the parts of this Requiem came up. Given the events of this last weekend, it is appropriate music.

Here is a Youtube video of the entire work (35-40 minutes). My favorite part is the “Libera me Domine”.

Two

Phillip Gulley. Gulley is a Quaker minister in Indiana and he has written a series of fiction books centering around a small Quaker meetinghouse in Harmony, Indiana. I love the books because they are so completely off-the-wall in terms of what happens in the church (example: a Quaker militia to protect the live Nativity from the ACLU) but they are also so incredibly accurate as to what congregations can do to their clergy and some of the more *interesting* expectations people have.

Three

Amos 4:13 This was part of this morning’s section in my read the Bible in a year plan and I loved it. This is from the NRSV.

For lo, the one who forms the mountains, creates the wind,
reveals his thoughts to mortals,
makes the morning darkness,
and treads on the heights of the earth—
the Lord, the God of hosts, is his name!

Four

Daniel cuddles. He is a cutie pie and snuggles very well. We usually watch Winnie the Pooh before bed and he’ll snuggle with whoever is with him. I’ve come home to some wonderful pictures of him snuggled up against my mom sleeping while Mom is on her phone or her tablet.

Five

ADHD meds. It’s like night and day with Daniel. He is calmer and can play better independently. We’re still doing some tweaking to deal with the insomnia side effect but it has overall been really positive after almost a month of having a consistent dosage.

Go love up Ashley.

7 Quick Takes: Reflections on Things I Read This Week

7 Quick Takes

— 1 —

Thank you notes. I had to laugh when I saw how this kid wrote thank-you notes for his graduation presents. It’s the polite thing to do when someone gives you a present but they’re pretty tedious to write.

— 2 —

Interesting Podcasts. I resonated with this list of 17 podcasts for people who are spiritually curious and I’m glad that On Being (formerly “Speaking of Faith”) is #2 on the list. If it were me, I would also add the ones from SQPN to the list .

— 3 —

Prerequisite cat video. If you’re on Facebook with me, you know that I’m kind of a cat person. Well… I saw this video and just had to share the link!

— 4 —

Wow. I didn’t know these still existed. A Texan man is one of 10 people in the world to live in an iron lung. He contracted it during one of the last polio epidemics to sweep the USA. We thankfully have a vaccine for this so for the most part, we never see this in the United States… which means that all the people who aren’t vaccinating their kids against it are raising the chances that we might see it again. Seriously folks, I have family members who were affected by it. It’s not pretty. VACCINATE YOUR KIDS!!!

— 5 —

More $tarbux cup commentary. Someone sent me a link to this interview in which the moron who put the video up on the Internet about $tarbux refusing to acknowledge Christmas with their new Christmas cups gets pwned. (By the way, our country was not founded on Judeo-Christian principles — we were founded on Enlightenment principles and the Founding Fathers were Deists.)

I actually have asked my barista about if people are actually putting their name as “Merry Christmas” and she said there have been lots of them and that there is nothing that prevents her and her fellow baristas from saying “Merry Christmas”… except that it’s not even Advent yet!

— 6 —

#FirstWorldProblems. Here are some fairly comical #FirstWorldProblems. I can honestly say that I’ve never had any of them.

— 7 —

Reminder. The Nativity Fast starts on November 15th. Here is how many Byzantine Catholics celebrate this time. (HT: priest’s wife)

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