7 Quick Takes: An Update on Daniel, Hot Weather, and Interesting Posts This Week

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7 Quick Takes

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Update on Daniel. Everything went as well as things could go today. We had to be at UCD Medical Center at 6:15 am and though we were a bit late (the main hospital is a maze), it worked out fine. The Child Life therapists met us at the the desk while we were checking in and took us back. They entertained Daniel while we got him measured and weighed and then while they were taking blood pressure/pulse ox/hooking him up to monitors. He got to pick out two toys to play with and that kept him entertained until the Versed (which he took by syringe with no problem) kicked in. Our anesthesiology resident was lovely (and a former autism therapist before she went to medical school) and our audiologist (who I had met the day before) was great. I had a 2 hour wait while he was in the test and then we got the news that they did find something: mild hearing loss in Daniel. (More later.) They let Daniel sleep the anesthesia off instead of rousing him and while we were waiting, I talked to his nurse about his knitting/crocheting/quilting projects. (The conversation got started because the nurse was telling me about the pillows one of the nurses and her daughter make for all the kids to take home. Daniel’s has Sesame Street characters on it.) Daniel woke up and had some juice while we waited for anesthesiology to clear him to go home. He is now (Thursday night) his normal bearish self. As far as these things go, this was an absolutely painless experience.

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So, about that hearing loss… I was suspecting that he wasn’t hearing things totally and this was actually a relief because it means that my suspicions were correct. Yeah, it’s not ideal that he has the mild hearing loss (something that was probably present at birth and missed on his newborn hearing screening) but he qualifies for hearing aids and between insurance, Medi-Cal, and California Childrens’ Services, we can get them paid for. It’s also one more puzzle piece in place for the medical mystery that is Daniel. It isn’t ideal but very little in my life is at the moment and I’ll settle for “we know what’s going on” rather than all of the “we have no freaking clue why this is the case” that I usually get. This will probably also affect his speech therapy because he’ll probably be able to understand the things his teachers and speech therapist are trying to do with him.

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The next steps. The next step is an ENT appointment to look at this from a medical perspective and then we’ll meet with her for a hearing aid appointment where they’ll give us a boatload of information and do ear molds (so we can mold the hearing aids to his ears). I also really like this particular audiologist — she’s a warmer person than the other one we’ve had through UCD and she’s got other autistic patients who have hearing aids so it’s not like this is new for her.

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All is well again. Wipeout is back this week. All is well with the world. At least they just pre-empted ABC shows for the NBA Finals instead of CBS ones — that would have been just brutal.

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Orphans. Do you see these three cherubs?

First row: Brett and Iris.
Second row: Kaia.

BrettIrisKaia

Brett still needs a mama. Iris finally has a family committed to her. Kaia has a family committed to her who will be traveling to her country to meet her on July 26th! Click on their names to see their Reece’s Rainbow pages.

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Blog posts of note. This week, I wrote about my experience with the Promise Walk this year, 10 things I live for, and five of my favorite passages of Scripture.

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Hot hot hot! It was 97F today and will be 100F or higher for the next 5-6 days. This would be lovely if I didn’t have to be out in it. However, we’ve got the parish picnic tomorrow so I’ve got to deal with at least an hour of it in addition to whatever time I spend out doing errands and at Daniel’s WIC appointment tomorrow. I’m thinking that it would be great if Jon were called to a church in Alaska…

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Five Favorites: Favorite Scripture Passages

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Five Favorites

Thomas of Strong Catholic asked a bonus question on his Quick Takes this week: What’s your favorite Bible verse? Or, for the indecisive, one of your favorites… ??? Dude, that’s like asking me which of the flowers in a rose garden is my favorite because I tend to read Scripture by passages. So… here are five of my favorite Scripture passages. The version will be in parentheses at the end of the passage.

Isa

Romans 8:31-39. It’s one that we use frequently for funerals in the Lutheran Church because it’s a reminder that nothing can separate us from God’s love.

What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all??how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died??more than that, who was raised to life??is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: ??For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.?? No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (NIV)

Dalawa

Psalm 121. I love to read this one, especially when I travel. Like all Psalms, I prefer reading the King James Version because the language is so elegant.

I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.
My help cometh from the Lord, which made heaven and earth.
He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber.
Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.
The Lord is thy keeper: the Lord is thy shade upon thy right hand.
The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.
The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.
The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore. (KJV)

Tatlo

Hebrews 4:14-16. I love the reminder that we can approach God with the knowledge that we will find grace and mercy.

Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are??yet he did not sin. Let us then approach God??s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. (NIV)

Apat

Isaiah 55:6-11. A woman at the church I attended in high school was British and used to pronounce the name of the book as “I-Sigh-Ah”. I also need the reminder frequently that my thoughts are not God’s thoughts and thus I really need to stop obsessing and be patient.

Seek the Lord while he may be found; call on him while he is near. Let the wicked forsake their ways and the unrighteous their thoughts. Let them turn to the Lord, and he will have mercy on them, and to our God, for he will freely pardon. ??For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,?? declares the Lord. ??As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts. As the rain and the snow come down from heaven, and do not return to it without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish, so that it yields seed for the sower and bread for the eater, so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it. (NIV)

Lima

Philippians 2:5-13. One of my favorite pieces of Scripture is “[work] out your salvation with fear and trembling”.

In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature[b] of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death ?? even death on a cross! Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed??not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence ??continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose. (NIV)

Go love up Hallie and the others.

Blogging with a Purpose: 10 Things I Live For

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The topic this week: 10 things I live for.

God. The name of this blog comes from Luther’s Bible study method, the tagline is from The Magician’s Nephew, and the name of this domain comes from a prayer. It should not be a surprise to anyone that I live for God.

Daniel. I’m a proud mama. You don’t cross me when it comes to my bear child. His laugh has the power to make me forget every bad thing in the world and he is an incredible snuggler.

My cats. They’ve been with me since Jon’s internship and my first year of marriage. They are my “fur children” and I get testy with people who don’t get that.

Making good music. I don’t have a lot of opportunities to sing or play piano these days but I love singing with a good community or church choir and playing good classical music on piano. It moves me in ways that defy words.

Spending time with family. For once in Jon’s ministerial career, we’re within 2 hours of my family and I make the most of it, seeing my parents at least monthly if I can and my evil twin maybe every 6 weeks. We try to go down to be with my in-laws as much as possible as well.

Writing. It provides me with a way of sorting out my brain and exercising creativity. Occasionally, it provides some money here and there. Mostly, it just gives me an outlet that I wouldn’t have otherwise.

Helping people to treat life as sacred. I’m not the right personality type to participate in the March for Life, 40 Days for Life, or attend rallies against the death penalty at the state capitol building. (There’s also that whole “lack of time” thing.) I do my part by advocating for orphans.

Helping people find their gifts and use them effectively. My policy as a pastor’s wife is not to take any any leadership position in the church if a parishioner can do it better or has a huge interest in it. It’s why I’m not in charge of the women’s ministries, on church council (not to mention that being a huge conflict of interest), or organizing major events for the church. Luckily, we’re blessed with some seriously talented people and some who come up with the most creative things imaginable.

Preeclampsia awareness. Just finished my 3rd Promise Walk for Preeclampsia on Sunday. They had someone doing trivia there who had never heard of HELLP Syndrome and a lot of the statistics before she put together the cards. (She was the sister-in-law of the organizer.) When she asked my mom the question, I told her that I’d had HELLP Syndrome and her jaw dropped. It was a reminder that we have so much to learn about the causes and we have so many medical professionals to educate about it so that their patients might be safer and keep their babies in longer. (Up to 1/5 of women affected by preeclampsia lose their babies as a result of it.)

Showing grace in all things. It’s probably obvious from recent posts and exchanges online that I still have much work to accomplish in this area of my life but it’s my ultimate aim. Grace is an amazing gift from God and I want to share it with the world.

Now go see Becky and everyone else who is linking up.

The Simple Woman’s Daybook: June 24, 2013

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Simple Woman's Daybook

FOR TODAY June 24, 2013

Outside my window… cloudy. It apparently rained this morning and I’m hoping for more.

I am thinking… about Daniel’s one-on-one ABA therapy which will be starting in 15 minutes.

I am thankful… for a wonderful weekend with my parents, getting to have coffee with my friend (as well as maid-of-honor and Daniel’s godmother) Rebecca, and a wonderful time at the Promise Walk for Preeclampsia yesterday.

In the kitchen… marinating some turkey breast for my dinner tonight.

I am wearing… a blue t-shirt and black sweats.

I am creating… blog posts.

I am going… to enjoy any quiet mornings I have this week.

I am wondering… what time Daniel’s pre-op is on Wednesday — I need to call and find out.

I am reading… Between Heaven and Mirth by Fr. James Martin, S.J. I finished Maphead this past Friday and read Killer Honeymoon by G.A. McKevvett on the drive to and from San Jose.

I am hoping… I don’t have to participate too much in Daniel’s therapy today.

I am looking forward to… seeing what a couple “creative” parishioners come up with for the church picnic on Friday. Last year, they built a fully-functional fountain in our church parking lot out of a recirculating pump, PVC pipe, some Rubbermaid containers, and pool toys. They also transformed our fellowship hall into a four-star restaurant every Valentine’s Day for the last two years.

I am learning various ABA techniques.

Around the house… next question!

I am pondering… too many things. It’s why I blog — to clean out my brain.

A favorite quote for today… “I believe in looking reality straight in the eye and denying it. ” — Garrison Keillor

One of my favorite things… Lipton Pure Leaf Raspberry Tea.

A few plans for the rest of the week: Morning Prayer tomorrow, ABA therapy every afternoon this week, Daniel’s pre-op on Wednesday, Daniel’s sedated ABR on Thursday, WIC appointment on Friday, and church picnic on Friday night.

Hosted by The Simple Woman’s Daybook

Promise Walk 2013: The Good, the Bad, and the Hopeful

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I’m home from the Promise Walk. I want to get all my thoughts down now so I can do something on it during the announcements in church next week so I guess I’ll do my normal method of post-mortem on this event.

The Good
[+] A good weekend with my parents.
[+] Getting to have coffee with Rebecca.
[+] Perfect weather — it was cloudy which meant that the morning was cool.
[+] Excellent speakers. The mission family was one who had lost a baby at 35 weeks. The doctor who came to speak was excellent. He referenced the Downton Abbey episode where Sybil dies of eclampsia and talked about the changes in the last 100 years.
[+] A chance to go walk on the creek trail where we used to walk in high school and where my parents found their Maine Coon cat.
[+] A decent shirt this year.

The Bad
[+] Being woefully out of shape due to being sick for so long.
[+] Blisters from my shoes.
[+] My legs and back are killing me.
[+] Poison oak along the trail.
[+] The kid who crashed his bike into the back of my leg… and didn’t apologize. (His mom did but he didn’t.)

The Hopeful
[+] Raising almost $20,000 which can fund a study on preeclampsia.

7 Quick Takes: How Many Controversial Things Can I Say This Week, Promise Walk Sponsorships, and Grumping About Basketball

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7 Quick Takes

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o.O I will readily admit that I had never pondered the theological powers of Superman before. The questions posed by Cari’s oldest son sound like the question from teaching Confirmation about whether or not God could create a boulder so big that He couldn’t lift it Himself. For the record, I’m with Lotus — Jesus is stronger than Superman.

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The “Why I Am Not Homeschooling Daniel” post series. Post #1 started some good discussion and brought a few trolls to the blog. Post #2 served as some kind of explanation. Post #3 was all about my reasons for not homeschooling him. I’m also inviting people to email and tell me succinctly (75 words or less) what decision you made (public/private/parochial/homeschool) and why you made it so that we can crowdsource some ideas for Bonnie. Email me by Wednesday of next week (the email address is jen @ this domain) and I’ll print all the things that fit. **UPDATE** Someone just emailed me to tell me that Elena rebutted what I had to say to her. In the interest of fairness, I’m linking the rebuttal here. I still stand by everything I said 100% but I also would rather let y’all see what she has to say and let you draw your own conclusions.

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More obsessing about food. Actually, it isn’t really obsessing as much as it’s reporting that if I eat in such a fashion as to not irritate the ulcers (which may have healed by now), my IBS symptoms go away. If I eat one thing on the forbidden list, I return to IBS hell. I haven’t had any Coke in almost a month and I still miss it even though I’ve found some alternatives that have less of a carb load and aren’t going to corrode my insides. I haven’t checked to see if I have celiac issues yet, mostly because I’m already having to limit my diet and I’m trying not to do too much at once. I’ll be with my parents this weekend and they have a scale so I’ll see if I’ve actually lost any weight at that point.

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Orphans. Do you see these three adorable munchkins?

First row: Brett and Iris.
Second row: Kaia.

BrettIrisKaia

Brett still needs a mama. Iris finally has a family committed to her. Kaia has a family committed to her who will be traveling to her country at the end of July to meet her on July 26th! Click on their names to see their Reece’s Rainbow pages.

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Hmph. Wipeout! was pre-empted by some stupid basketball game. NBA basketball is overrated and I say this even coming from a city that just fought tooth-and-claw to keep their team.

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*facepalm* Could I ask a favor of the Catholic blogosphere? Could you please actually *READ* a news story in its entirety and not look for random soundbites to use as evidence that Obama is Satan? The FULL TEXT of the quote that everyone got so flipped out about yesterday is…

If towns remain divided ?? if Catholics have their schools and buildings, and Protestants have theirs, if we can’t see ourselves in one another, if fear or resentment are allowed to harden ?? that too encourages division. It discourages cooperation. (Source)

The word “theirs” in the phrase “Protestants have theirs” replaces “their schools and buildings”. He is referring to the fact that in most places, Catholics and Protestants live in separate neighborhoods divided by “peace lines” — barricades made of bricks, steel, and barbed wire. (I actually saw these in Belfast when I was there in 1998.) He is not calling for an end to Catholic education in general in either Northern Ireland or in the USA — he is calling for Catholics to integrate with Protestants for the purposes of working for peace the same way whites had to integrate with blacks in this country 50 years ago. Mining articles like that for soundbites is juvenile and shows an inability to play well with others, so can y’all please behave in a Christ-like fashion? I refrained from mining stories for Romney soundbites during the last election and I know y’all can do the same regarding Obama.

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Promise Walk for Preeclampsia. Wanna sponsor me in the Promise Walk this weekend? Preeclampsia affects 1 in 8 pregnancies in some fashion and 1/5 of affected women lose their babies because the only cure is to deliver the baby, regardless of how premature they are. I’m blessed in that I had a doctor who caught it in time and got me transferred to the BIG hospital in Great Falls where my awesome high-risk specialist could do an emergency c-section and where there was a Level III NICU for Daniel. If you can’t sponsor me, please at least keep me and the other participants in prayer on Sunday morning.

Daniel and I at the 2012 Promise Walk.

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